You think you are resting by doing these 5 things, but they actually consume a lot of energy

2024-08-20

When you have finished your work and walked out of the company building exhausted, what can you do to rest and catch your breath?Have a big meal? Watch a movie? Use your phone? Sleep in? Play games all night?

There are many behaviors that appear to be rest and relaxation on the surface, but in fact they consume energy, damage the body, and corrupt emotions, causing long-term harm to our physical and mental health.

Today, let’s talk about these 5 common behaviors that you may think are just for rest but are actually very energy-consuming.

1. Excessive sleep: the more you sleep, the more sleepy you feel

As we all know, sleep is very important. Sleep is like charging our bodies. It not only allows us to restore our physical strength, but also allows us to consolidate our memory and repair our psychology.

On the contrary, lack of sleepIt's like the battery is not fully charged.It will make us miss the opportunity to repair our body and mind, and cause us to feel tired, lack of energy, and upset. Over time, it will damage our health and do more harm than good.

But what many people don’t know is thatExcessive sleep can also cause problemsIt is equivalent to the battery being fully charged but still being charged continuously, which may lead to overheating or even explosion.

Lack of sleep or excessive sleep areDepressionOne of the most important and typical diagnostic criteria for sleep disorders is a large British survey that found that long-term excessive sleep is associated withLower intelligence level,diabetes、heart disease, Alzheimer's disease, depression, infertility and other diseases.

After a hard week of work, many people choose to sleep in on the weekends. However, after waking up, they do not feel energetic, but groggy, headache and fatigue, which are very similar to the symptoms of a hangover. Scientists call it "hangover".Sleeping drunk”（sleep drunkenness）People feel more tired after oversleeping because unhealthy sleep rhythms disrupt the biological clock in the brain that controls the body's daily cycles.

For example, your daily biological clock is to get up at 6 o'clock, go out at 7 o'clock, have breakfast at 8 o'clock, and sit in the office typing on the computer at 9 o'clock. On weekends, although you are lying in bed, your biological clock will still wake up every cell in your body at 6 o'clock, so that the cells can take their positions and perform their duties.

That is to say,You seem to be "sleeping in", but you are actually "idling around"A tire spinning in place will cause more damage. By the same token, lying in bed and "spinning around" will naturally cause a lot of damage.

2. Browsing your phone: The more you browse, the more anxious you become.

In the eyes of most people, surfing the Internet and browsing on their phones are the "best short-acting over-the-counter analgesics." Especially short videos, most of which are simple, straightforward and brain-free, with bright tunes and dynamic rhythms, as well as short, frequent flash screens and information bombardment, which bring continuous, high-intensity visual and auditory stimulation, triggering the brain to secrete a large amount of dopamine, making people immersed in the happy experience of watching more and more, and temporarily putting aside all worries.

So many people,The first thing I do when I wake up in the morning is to pick up my phone, refresh my Moments to see if my friends and family have updated their status, then open the official account to see if I have missed any major news, and then I get up and wash up; before going to bed at night, I have to repeat the same process. Even during commuting, meeting breaks, going to the toilet, and other fragmented time, I have to take out my phone to update.

But in fact,This kind of continuous and high-intensity stimulation to the brain will gradually increase the brain's tolerance threshold to information stimulation.The "dose" that originally made you happy for the whole day will soon no longer work, and you can only increase the "dose" to maintain this experience, or you will suffer unbearable pain due to forced "quit", and even affect your emotional feelings and behavior patterns.

In addition, this subconscious behavior of checking one's social software has developed into a widespread social syndrome, a diffuse anxiety state and behavioral manifestation. Researchers call this anxiety "missing anxiety disorder"（fear of missing out，FOMO）It refers to a diffuse anxiety caused by an individual's fear of missing out on meaningful experiences with others, manifested as a desire to continue to understand others.What people are going through.

Research has found that social media users have a higher level of missing out anxiety. This is because with the powerful performance of mobile phones, online social media has broken the limitations of time and space, allowing people to learn about other people's various statuses anytime and anywhere from a palm-sized mobile phone, which in turn enhances people's missing out anxiety.

Empirical research also shows that passive social network use behavior can easily lead individuals to make upward social comparisons, which is one of the sources of individual stress.

It is worth noting that whether it is the personal image that people reveal on social networks or the ideal image that online media vigorously promotes, most of them are perfect body images that appear "fake and real" based on stereotyped aesthetic standards. These information can easily lead individuals to have a negative attitude towards their own body image and current living conditions.

A large number of experimental studies and meta-analysis results have shown that exposure to ideal images in the media may lead to the following negative psychological consequences:It reduces people’s body satisfaction, causes body shame, anxiety, low happiness, and depression.

Therefore, if you find that your body anxiety is getting worse and you are becoming less and less satisfied with your body shape, appearance, and clothing style, then you should be alert to whether you are using your phone too much or watching too many short videos!

3. Excessive rest: the more you rest, the more tired you become

Just like when people feel uncomfortable, their first reaction is to "drink more hot water", when they feel very tired, their first choice is to "rest more". It is undoubted that rest can quickly restore physical strength and help the body repair. When you feel tired or sick, whether it is relatives, friends or health professionals, they will suggest that you "rest more". However, this well-intentioned advice often causes people to rest for too long.

Resting for a long time without moving will make you more tired.In particular, this extreme lifestyle of being busy all the time when you are full of energy and taking a long time to rest and recuperate when you are low on energy is one of the reasons for the persistence of chronic fatigue.

Studies have found that the more rest you get when you have a viral illness, the more symptoms you will experience six months later; and long daytime rest is an important factor in disrupted sleep patterns.

That is, when you have an acute illness orInfectWhen you are infected with a virus, the correct approach is to take a short rest. While ensuring adequate sleep, you may as well do moderate and gentle exercise, such as walking, as long as you do not feel unwell.

In short, in daily life and work, a work-rest schedule can keep you energetic. Don't just bury your head in work, nor should you just lie down and do nothing without restraint.

4. Playing games: the more you play, the more painful it becomes

For today's young people, "video games" have become a very common spiritual haven. After a tiring day at work, it would be wonderful to go home at night and play a few battle games, play a "harvesting" game, or have a good time in a "mowing" game.

To some extent, "video games relieve stress" is true. In daily life, people are often anxious because they anticipate "what if something goes wrong".Playing certain video games, such as Tetris and Minecraft, forces players to focus on the current task without thinking about problems that may arise in the future.

If you play games in this way and with this mentality during your rest time, it will certainly have good results.But the problem is,Many games nowadays not only do not make us happy, but are likely to cause our "mentality to explode" and bring us more anxiety.

For example, in some economic games, the "ladder" mechanism is used, where each game of a player serves a larger ranking system, and players who are willing to participate will certainly hope to get a better ranking in this system. Such a design will inevitably make it impossible for each competition to focus on the competition itself, and will further break the mentality of the players, making it easier for players to make impulsive mistakes, abuse other players, and forcibly increase the game time in a bad mood in order to recover the lost points.

Even without the "ladder" mechanism, many competitive players are overly concerned about their own performance and win rate, which leads to the burden of "not logging off until winning a game" and "not sleeping until C in a game". Under the influence of the mentality of high concentration, full of winning and losing, and striving to prove their own strength, I am afraid no one can still remember the original intention of playing games: to experience fun during rest.

Similar mechanisms can actually lead to some serious consequences. For example, a paper published earlier this year found that playing video games for too long can increase the probability of adolescents suffering from obsessive-compulsive disorder. This also seems to indicate that games are not a source of rest in many cases, but rather a source of stress.

Of course, many games today are still using many other methods to "put pressure" on players instead of providing happiness. Among them, the routines worth being vigilant about include but are not limited to:

1.Limited time event.If a certain game content can only be played at a certain time point, then wouldn't playing games become a meeting that requires special time to attend?

2. Blind box card drawing.Many game props cannot be purchased directly, but can only be drawn from the prize pool by chance. Although many games have a "guaranteed minimum" mechanism, it is enough to mess with people's mentality.

3. Check in daily.If a limited-time event requires you to be online at a specific time, then daily clocking in requires you to be online every day to check in. Yes, just like clocking in at work.

4. Collect all achievements.Whether it is skins, props, or even physical game peripherals, people’s inner desire to “collect enough” will always be at work, and this will also lead to a sense of loss and anxiety.

In this light, it is not difficult to understand why many gamers nowadays lament from time to time, "I don't know whether it is people who play games, or games that play people!" Because from a certain perspective, playing games may really be more tiring than going to work.

5. Eating and drinking: the more you eat, the more depressed you become.

There is a famous saying in the foodie circle, which is: "There is no unhappiness that can't be solved by a big meal. If one meal doesn't work, then two meals." As a foodie, food is the source of happiness and it is also the fastest and most effective way to relieve stress.

"Happy Fat House Water" can't bring you happiness

Most people know that sugar stimulates the secretion of dopamine, which is responsible for the feeling of pleasure. However, most people do not know thatExcessive sugar intake will not only bring short-term happinessobesity, and it may also cause you to fall into depression.

In 2019, researchers conducted a meta-analysis of 10 observational studies involving 37,131 patients with depression and found that drinking sugary drinks increases people's risk of depression:If you drink about 45 grams of sugary drinks a day, your risk of depression will increase by 5%;If you drink beverages containing about 98 grams of sugar every day, your risk of depression will suddenly increase to 25%.

That is to say,"Happy Fat House Water" can't bring you happiness, but it will bring you a series of troublesEven diet cola is the same, as the artificial sweeteners added to diet cola can also make people more susceptible to depression.

A 2017 review of research on the artificial sweetener aspartame found that aspartame increases a substance in the brain that inhibits the synthesis and release of dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin, while also increasing harmful free radicals in the brain.

Fried foods are well-known "mood killers"

Fried foods are also well-known "mood killers".In 2011, a study on depression andFatIs there a correlation? " was the research topic. A 6-year longitudinal study of 12,059 Spanish college students who had no symptoms of depression was conducted. The results showed that the more trans fats the subjects consumed in their diet, the higher their level of depression and the higher their risk of developing depression.

From this we can see that staying away from sugar and fried foods can not only make you healthy, but also make you happy.

Humans are animals, and rest is their nature. But people seem to have used too much creativity in resting, which sometimes results in a seemingly inefficient resting state. As a result, the more they rest, the more tired they become, and their bodies and minds cannot relax.

Perhaps, we really need to consider stopping our retaliatory rest and relaxation, and turn eating, sleeping and playing as much as we want into eating well, sleeping well and playing well.

References

[1] The Fatigue Self-Help Manual: Using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to Regain Your Vitality, Mary Burgess

[2] The Eating Brain by Uma Naidu

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Author:Su Jing National Level 2 Psychological Counselor

Audit丨Tang Yicheng, Deputy Director of Beijing Zhongke Popular Psychology Mental Health Promotion Center

Planning丨Lin Lin

Editor: Lin Lin

Proofread by Xu Lai

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