2024-10-07
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the national day holiday has come to an end. let’s take a good rest today. tomorrow, the “mythical beasts” will “return to their cages” again!
many schools issue back-to-school reminders
saying goodbye to the happy holidays, many students and parents will suffer from "post-holiday syndrome", which manifests as: low mood, no mood for school/work, or even dizziness and restlessness...
in the past two days, some schools have issued "back-to-school reminders" to teach parents and students how to use today's last day of vacation to recharge their bodies and minds.
for example, the heart-warming tips released by shanghai jianping experimental zhangjiang middle school——
student articles
1looking back on the happy holidays and looking forward to back-to-school life
we can seize the end of the holiday to review our holiday life and complete a holiday summary list. this list can include the tasks, gains and growth we have completed in many aspects such as study and life. in addition, we can also make a plan for back-to-school life, simply design the food, clothing, housing, transportation, study life, etc. after returning to school and work hard to achieve it.
during the changes and adjustments in life, it is normal to have various emotional reactions. this is a common feeling among everyone rather than a personal problem. when negative emotions arise, you can use the stop technique to help debug them.
stop: when negative emotions arise, you may feel irritable and even want to take action to make yourself feel better. at this time, you can give yourself some time and space to calm down and stay with your emotions for a while before taking action;
take a breath: take at least three deep breaths, inhale deeply through your nose, exhale slowly through your mouth, and let your breathing help you calm down and return to rationality;
observe: be aware of the feelings and thoughts in your body and heart at this time, and accept these uncomfortable feelings. these are normal and temporary;
proceed continues: after completing the first three steps, you will find that your impulsive emotions have calmed down a bit. at this time, try to do something meaningful and stay away from conflict situations, such as chatting with your partner for a while, doing something you like, etc. wait.
regular work and rest: consciously adjust your work and rest. for example, do not watch tv or play with mobile phones before going to bed, and go to bed half an hour earlier to ensure the time and quality of sleep after returning to school.
shift the focus: consciously reduce the time and frequency of entertainment, put away mobile phones and other electronic products in time to reduce dependence on electronic products. arrange more physical exercises or academic-related activities to shift your attention to learning.
parents
in the past few days, parents should pay attention to misunderstandings while helping their children to "relax". the following things must be paid attention to:
◆ don’t engage in “sudden braking”. everything has a process, and concentration cannot be achieved in one step. work and rest must be adjusted slowly, and learning must be gradually increased, so that children can slowly adapt.
◆ don’t do “one size fits all”. do not forcibly cancel all entertainment activities for your children. this will cause resistance and rebelliousness in your children. please respect your children's wishes and discuss with them how to deal with it.
◆ don’t engage in “cramming”. before and after the holidays, children will have a period of transition and adaptation. parents should not put too much pressure on their children and cultivate their children's learning interests and study habits.