2024-09-26
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talking about the "misunderstanding" caused by her name, zhang xiaoyuan also felt helpless.
it all started with an online post. in the accompanying picture, the word "xiao yuan" on the sign of "xiao yuan mala tang" was particularly eye-catching. the poster questioned: "does the boss think that the name of his store is humorous?"
store manager zhang xiaoyuan felt aggrieved, "the word 'xiaoyuan' is taken from my name."
the word "媛" has two pronunciations. "媛" (yuàn) originally means to describe a beautiful woman, and "媛" (yuán) means a beautiful posture. zhang xiaoyuan said that she is a member of the jilin blue sky rescue team and came to chongqing to start a business alone in november last year. she hopes that the beautiful chinese characters can return to their original beautiful meaning.
red star news commented on this matter, saying that everyone should be more tolerant and think from others' perspective, think more about "do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you", not be carried away by arrogance and prejudice, and let emotions wait for the truth of the incident. only then will the internet be truly clear and cyber violence will be completely eradicated.
netizens posted a post questioning the inappropriateness of the store name. photo/screenshot from social media
dialogue with zhang xiaoyuan.
【1】apologizes for posting an attack on a netizen
jiupai news: what is the ins and outs of the incident?
zhang xiaoyuan:i bought this small shop next to southwest university in chongqing and sold barbecue for a semester. i planned to start selling spicy hot pot in september. i was worried about the name at that time. i saw that many spicy hot pot shops were named after the owners, so i named it "xiaoyuan spicy hot pot". i didn't know that the word "yuan" was stigmatized on the internet.
at the end of august, before the store officially opened, a friend reminded me that a netizen had posted a post attacking the store name. i felt wronged, so i registered an account and publicly clarified the matter. later, the netizen who posted the post sent me a private message to apologize, and i learned that he was a student nearby, so i didn't want to pursue it.
in mid-september, an account named "college of arts continuing education office" attacked me again: "you haven't changed your name yet, and you will go bankrupt sooner or later. it's a light punishment that you haven't been complained to the industrial and commercial bureau." i was very angry. after contacting the relevant departments of southwest university, i learned that the poster was a student of the school. subsequently, the account issued an apology and has now changed its name.
the account apologized. photo/screenshot from social media
jiupai news: why is she named zhang xiaoyuan?
zhang xiaoyuan:my parents asked a name master to help me choose the name. he said that i was born in a yang year, yang month, yang day and yang hour, which is quite masculine, and suggested a feminine name. i have been using this name for more than 30 years, and i have never encountered such a problem. i am not dissatisfied with the name, but i thought it was difficult to write when i was a child.
jiupai news: do you still receive negative comments after the clarification?
zhang xiaoyuan:i don't read the comments now, and i don't want to stir up public opinion. it's not easy for students to get into this school, i don't want to affect their studies and life, and i don't want others to disturb them.
jiupai news: is business improving?
zhang xiaoyuan:not obvious. some students came to eat after seeing the clarification post, but they are rare. i just hope this will pass quickly and we can return to normal life as soon as possible.
【2】come to chongqing to start a business alone
jiupai news: can you briefly introduce yourself?
zhang xiaoyuan:i am from jilin. i went on a self-driving tour to tibet in july and august last year. on the way back, i passed through chongqing. i think the people in chongqing are very nice. it may be because they eat chili peppers. they are very generous and very similar to people in northeast china. they are very enthusiastic when asking for directions and we can chat. in november last year, i came to chongqing alone to start a business. my family has jobs in my hometown and cannot come over for the time being.
jiupai news: what did you do before coming to chongqing?
zhang xiaoyuan:i have an excavator at home. i usually hire workers to work on the construction site. i don't have to keep an eye on them. i live a relatively free life and i like to do charity. i am the deputy leader of the newcomer team of the jilin blue sky rescue team. i have participated in rescue activities of all sizes, such as searching for missing persons in the mountains, visiting disabled people in welfare homes, and participating in volunteer disinfection work without going home for two or three months. i have won many honors such as "jilin city outstanding volunteer".
zhang xiaoyuan. photo/provided by the interviewee
jiupai news: why do you start a catering business in chongqing?
zhang xiaoyuan:i learned how to cook hotpot and cold dishes in chongqing, and after returning to northeast china, i also opened cold dishes and barbecue restaurants. this time i came to chongqing, i was unfamiliar with the place, so i started from catering. at first, i opened a barbecue restaurant near gate 1 of southwest university, and some students suggested opening one at gate 2, and i agreed.
this shop has been open for four or five months. my friend said there were seven barbecue restaurants downstairs and suggested changing to one. i thought about it. i love spicy hot pot and it is easy to learn, so i changed to spicy hot pot. the previous barbecue restaurant is still there and the business is good, but the spicy hot pot restaurant is not doing well. i usually get up at 8 o'clock and work until 22 o'clock. i go home when the school is on vacation, but i don't give up my work in the rescue team. i work online a lot. if there happens to be an event when i go home, i will go if i can catch it.
certificate of honor. photo/provided by the interviewee
jiupai news: some people believe that it is a fact that "yuan" has been stigmatized and suggest changing the name of the store.
zhang xiaoyuan:although it is true, i think it is wrong. i will not change my name because of public opinion. i hope that the word "yuan" will return to its original beautiful meaning.