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recently, "1818 golden eye" captured another confusing dispute.

the incident happened in hangzhou.

25-year-old xiao wang took an online taxi home at around 9 o'clock in the evening. she found that the driver took a path she had never taken before, and she immediately became alert.

when she asked the driver why he took this road, he answered softly and she couldn't hear it clearly.

seeing that the man couldn't be beaten to death even with three sticks, and seeing that it was pitch black all around and the driver seemed to be driving towards the woods, the girl became more and more scared.

logically speaking, the best way to deal with fear at this time is to call the police for help, but she thought she should save herself if she could.

when the car passed the lawn, he simply opened the electric lock of the car door and jumped out.

unfortunately, a fracture occurred.

in xiao wang’s words: “i didn’t expect jumping out of the car would be so dangerous.”

the driver was stunned when he saw the passenger doing this.

when he got out of the car to check, xiao wang had already stood up and was hiding from him while talking on the phone.

when asked if she wanted to continue the journey, she didn't say anything.

in desperation, the master could only drive away with a head full of question marks.

later, the reporter asked him: why didn't you slow down when you saw the passengers jumping out of the car?

he said, "because i was concentrating on driving", but when he found out, the person had already gone down.

the route was completely based on the navigation.

the so-called small forest is the green belt under the elevated road. there are surveillance cameras at the intersection, street lights on the side, and a community that turns on the lights at 7 o'clock.

the platform later proved his statement and there was no deviation during the entire journey.

the reporter also found during an on-site visit that the road was by no means "completely dark".

xiao wang's boyfriend admitted that jumping out of the car was wrong.

but he believes that the driver should bear secondary responsibility for the accident because the passenger jumped out of fear because he took the side road, so he hopes that the driver and the platform will pay part of the medical expenses...

after reading this difficult story, the comment section became lively again.

some people were as confused as the driver and didn't understand why the female passenger reacted so excessively.

some people also sympathized with the injured.

they speculated that she might have thought of some negative news at the time (for example, the murder of a flight attendant in zhengzhou) and was so frightened that she did this.

these are normal discussions.

but it didn't take long before the conflict between the driver and the passengers turned into a gender conflict.

female netizens blamed male netizens for lacking empathy and only being able to preach from a condescending position.

male netizens, however, believe that it is certain "feminists" who sell anxiety under the banner of banding together for warmth that make girls suspicious all day long.

“luckily no one was killed this time.

otherwise, everyone who contributes to the situation is a murderer.”

the argument became more and more abstract, and finally turned into this style:

vs

……

in fact, xiao wang's operation is not an isolated case. similar incidents have occurred before:

in 2019, a female college student in changchun felt sleepy while riding in an online ride-hailing car and suspected that she was drugged by the driver.

because she was afraid, she used a knife to defend herself and scratched the driver.

in february 2021, a changsha girl named che shasha took a huolala to move house, but had a dispute with the driver over the moving fee and waiting time.

along the way, the driver was irritated with her and even took a shortcut in order to rush to the next order.

these actions touched che shasha's psychological buttons.

out of fear, she jumped out of the car window and died.

in june 2021, also in hangzhou, a woman suddenly jumped out of a car less than 4 kilometers away from her destination.

the driver had a brief exchange with her about "the vehicle not driving according to the navigation", but there was no dispute or other abnormal circumstances, and the driver had no intention of committing a crime.

but she still jumped out of the car because she was scared.

i think everyone still remembers what the comment sections were like back then.

basically, men call women "little fairies" and "paranoiacs"; women call men "straight men", "lacking female perspective" and "bullying the weak and fearing the strong".

at that time and moment, it was just like this moment.

every time we see a female passenger behaving abnormally in a male driver's car, the dimension of gender confrontation will never be absent in the public opinion field.

i don't know what's the point of escalating this issue to a conflict between men and women.

apart from creating more hostility in society and bringing topic traffic to the platform, it doesn't solve any problems at all.

the statement that "all men are born with original sin and lack empathy" obviously has no basis.

just browse the internet and you will see many men expressing their empathy for women's psychological mechanisms.

as long as you don't mind their "dad flavor", they will even advise you tirelessly:

go out less at night, and if you have to go out, be sure to pay attention to safety.

likewise, i also disagree with the views that "women who are afraid of being harmed by male drivers suffer from paranoia" or "they have been brainwashed by feminism and developed a fear of men."

because there have indeed been many vicious cases of online ride-hailing drivers molesting female passengers.

although the incidence of extreme cases is not high, it is normal for some young girls who are inexperienced, timid and sensitive not to gamble their lives on probability.

after all, no one wants to be hit by that tiny chance of bad luck.

(data from china judicial big data research institute in 2018)

in fact, there are many concrete ways to alleviate security anxiety, and there is no need to argue endlessly in the abstract dimension of gender opposition.

if the driver really wanted to harm you, would he not harm you if you jumped off?

aren't you more likely to be held hostage by criminals while lying on the ground injured?

many people may have watched too many action movies, and when they see people in the movies jumping out of cars without any harm, they think they can do it too.

in fact, jumping out of a car is very dangerous, because you are moving at a high speed relative to the ground, and landing will not be as simple as just getting some scratches.

especially if the head hits the ground or the head hits the curb, there is a high probability that the person jumping out of the car will die on the spot.

even if your head is fine, your torso may be crushed by the vehicle if you don't jump far enough.

xiao wang's injury is a blessing in disguise.

therefore, if a girl is worried that she may encounter a lone wolf driver, she should call the police immediately instead of jumping out of the car.

you can check the navigation first to determine whether the car is off course. if so, ask the driver to stop immediately.

if he doesn't stop, you can press the "one-click alarm" on the platform or send a text message to 12110 to notify the police calmly.

also, if you travel at night, you can consider taking a more expensive private car, or a private car with a female driver.

this function is available on didi.

every time a passenger jumps off a vehicle, experts advise online ride-hailing drivers to improve their service attitude and strengthen communication with passengers.

everyone understands the general principles, but it is difficult to put them into practice.

take xiao wang for example. she spentsurprise special price of 9.52 yuantake a taxi. the driver will definitely take a shortcut to complete this order as soon as possible and then grab the next one, because he sees that her order is cheap.

as for the service attitude, it's normal that people are tired after driving all day and not very enthusiastic.

if you are more concerned about this, it is better to spend a little more money to take a private car, which can also buy yourself peace of mind.

of course, we still hope that the platform can provide a better mechanism to protect the rights and interests of drivers and passengers so that everyone can enjoy better services.

in this discussion, i also saw many people mention their "horrible" experiences of taking online ride-hailing cars more than ten years ago.

in the early stages of the development of this industry, management in all aspects was not very strict and there were indeed many security loopholes.

some loopholes also caused bloody lessons:

but it’s 2024 now, and online ride-hailing is no longer a new thing, and various regulatory and compliance plans have been increasing in intensity.

online ride-hailing has become a means of transportation with a very high safety factor.

using the experience of more than ten years ago to measure it would be like trying to find a sword by looking at the mark on the mark.

so, there is really no need for us to scare ourselves.

don't even bother yourself by jumping out of a car, a "self-rescue" method that is tantamount to suicide.