2024-09-26
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carry forward traditional culture and warm the world and people's hearts
since my child entered the mingde chinese kindergarten affiliated to the academy and the 36th chinese studies enlightenment class, i have been following the academy with my child to learn and seek the right way to raise children. we are used to hearing stories such as "mencius's mother moved three times", "mother-in-law embroidered words", "firefly bag reflecting the snow", "five sons passed the imperial examination", "hanging the head on the beam and piercing the leg with an awl", but we are used to it. this saturday, a lecture entitled "cultivating oneself and increasing one's ability to become a nobleman for the growth of children's life" was the most shocking lesson i heard at the academy parents' school. this is the second time i have heard the teacher talk about the same topic. the same problem, the same thought, the same truth, the teacher never tires of talking about it, this should be the parenting way we have been looking for.
i remember that i also wrote my thoughts after attending the lecture last time. but to be honest, i really didn't understand the truth of parenting. i understood a little bit, but i didn't put it into action after returning, nor did i set strict requirements on myself, let alone improve my energy. this time, the teacher said again: the best way to raise children is to do the duty of parents; understand that children's education is the greatest cause in life and be willing to pay for it; know that the most effective way to educate children is to practice self-cultivation and set an example. i thought of the mother of the great man mao zedong, wen qimei. she had never been to school, believed in buddhism since she was a child, and did good deeds. wen qimei was friendly and helpful, so mao zedong was influenced by her since he was a child. this may be the ideological basis for mao zedong to seek truth and serve the people, and it is also the source of motivation for him to lead the chinese communist party's revolution to the end, save the chinese working people, and build a new china.