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watching the news, i see many people committing suicide because they can no longer hold on due to difficulties in life.

but you can think of an old woman whose daughter is one of the most beautiful hong kong stars and the dream goddess of countless men—lin qingxia.

there was no shortage of money at home, and he had plenty of companionship, but he chose to commit suicide many times and eventually ended his life by jumping off a building!

logically speaking, the family is not short of money, the children are very filial, they are picked up and dropped off by car when they go out, and the place they live is like a big park. how could they want to commit suicide with such a life?

is there some hidden secret?

brigitte lin is one of the hong kong stars who died relatively early, but she did not continue her acting career. instead, she turned to charity and used her influence to help more people in need.

in the past, the family was often photographed by paparazzi traveling together. looking at the happy expressions on the parents' faces, it is obvious that they are very satisfied with this filial daughter.

at the daughter's wedding, the family stood together in an orderly manner, which shows that they had no family conflicts and these could not constitute "reasons for suicide."

after reading the information and various reports, i found out that it was because of the "heart disease" that had been buried in my heart in my early years!

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forced to be separated from children

even though her daughter is a big star, ma lanying's job has nothing to do with art.

yes, her last name is ma, which is a relatively rare surname in china, right? at that time, many people could not afford to see a doctor, and even a cold could cost a person's life.

influenced by her surroundings, her childhood dream was to “save the dying and the wounded.”

ma lanying was indeed working towards this goal, and she worked hard step by step to become a doctor. although the domestic situation at that time was still chaotic with you in charge today and i in charge tomorrow, she was not affected too much because she worked in the hospital.

it was precisely because of the chaotic situation that many military doctors were temporarily arranged to work in hospitals, and it was by such a coincidence that ma lanying met her lover.

the hospital where she worked was managed by the kuomintang at the time, and she also met a military doctor named lin weiliang at work.

the daily interactions at work made their relationship heat up quickly and they soon fell in love.

what’s different from now is that back then, getting married basically meant getting pregnant and having children, so they didn’t have so many concerns. besides, both of them had stable jobs, so naturally they wanted to have children earlier.

soon, their first daughter was born and named "lin li", but what they could not have expected was that the war broke out suddenly. as a military doctor, lin weiliang naturally had to go to the battlefield, and with chiang kai-shek's defeat, he had to follow the troops to flee to taiwan province.

this made the couple very worried. changing place to live was not a problem, but the key was that the child was at the age when he needed to be fed, and they didn’t know what the child would experience along the way. what if something happened along the way?

after much consideration, they decided to leave their daughter at a relative's home here and pick her up when they had the chance in the future. ideals are full of hope, but reality is very skinny. when they met again, they were already old and their daughter was already middle-aged.

you have to know that there was no way of communication between the mainland and taiwan province back then.

after many older generations went to taiwan province, what they longed for every day was to return to their hometown.

fortunately, the relatives here were very reliable and raised lin li as their own daughter. although their financial conditions were not very good, they never treated her badly in terms of food and drink.

because the daughter was very young when she was separated from her parents, she has always believed that the people here are her family, and has long forgotten her biological parents.

reunion after 40 years

but fate always tortures people. she would have lived her whole life like this, but when she was older, someone contacted her and said that "your biological parents" wanted to see her.

lin li, who was already in her forties at this time, did not look too surprised. instead, she looked worried because she felt that she had completely forgotten her parents over the years, and although her life now was not rich, she was also very happy.

there was no need to look for her relatives. the most important thing was that she also learned that she had a sister who was now a big star in hong kong, which made her, as a teacher, feel even more inferior...

people at that time were very simple and never thought about getting rich overnight. she also didn't want her biological parents to think that she was recognizing her biological parents just to live a rich life, so she was always hesitating whether to meet them.

but when she saw the longing contained in the text, it seemed that her parents had not forgotten her all these years, but they really had no way to come and take her back. after much thought, she decided to go and meet her biological parents.

she was deeply shocked when they met for the first time. seeing the super star brigitte lin rushing over to give her a hug and affectionately calling her "sister" was something she had never dared to dream of.

after a brief greeting, her parents came forward with tears in their eyes and held her hands, unwilling to let go for a while.

at that time, their family conditions were already very good. the second daughter was a big star and the son was also an entrepreneur. the family had endless money. when her parents saw lin li's current life, they immediately proposed to change her house.

but lin li still seemed a little unfamiliar with her parents whom she hadn't seen for many years, so she refused the luxury cars and mansions.

she just wants to continue living her ordinary life now. her idea is "recognizing relatives is because of blood ties, but i don't want it to disrupt my current life."

finally, ma lanying fulfilled the wish that had troubled her for forty years and finally saw her long-awaited daughter.

at this time, their family had already moved to hong kong with their daughter, so they invited lin li to live with them, hoping that the family could live together in harmony.

but after thinking it over again and again, lin li felt that she had already gotten used to her current life and was very happy, so she decided not to go.

this made the old mother very worried. she was afraid that her daughter was holding a grudge against her but was too embarrassed to ask her. she wanted to compensate her daughter with money but she refused to accept it, which made her lose several pounds in a short time.

guilt, once buried in the heart, is difficult to eliminate.

fortunately, the two sisters have a good relationship and often talk on the phone. if they are filming nearby, they will also make time to get together.

brigitte lin would also report her sister's recent situation to her mother to prove that she was living well, hoping that this would ease her mother's inner guilt, but as she got older, her mother's heart disease became more and more serious.

moreover, because she had not paid attention to the hidden dangers in her early years, they all showed up in her body as she got older. all kinds of chronic diseases were a double torture to her mentally and physically.

although her children are very filial, they all have their own careers and cannot be with her all the time. in her eyes, caregivers and nannies are always outsiders who cannot provide her with enough emotional value.

in 2002, the 71-year-old man could no longer bear it and chose to jump off a building to end his life.

at that time, many people didn’t understand. the daughter had become a national idol, so why would she choose to commit suicide at such an old age?

in fact, as their body functions deteriorate, the older generation often thinks about the mistakes they made when they were young. it would be fine if they could make up for it, but it is obvious that lin li does not want her family to disturb her peaceful life.

over time, the mother's guilt became a mental illness, and coupled with the physical pain, she was ultimately unable to bear it and chose "liberation."

finally, a word

once we see news about suicide, there will definitely be people who will say, "is this person stupid? he's not even afraid of death, what else is he afraid of?"

in fact, most of them suffer from depression. this disease, which many people think is "fake", actually exists and is really scary. according to the news, ma lanying had attempted suicide five times.

if the family could discover the elderly’s psychological problems earlier, perhaps the tragedy could have been avoided.

but it’s too late to say anything now. now that brigitte lin is in her seventies, she has officially started to enjoy her later years. her mother’s affairs will probably still be a source of worry for her.