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unexpectedly, kang hui, a 53-year-old who had been a dink for half his life, had a phone call that became his lifelong regret

2024-09-04

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a hundred filial piety is not as good as one obedience. parents just want to hold their grandchildren, why can't you be satisfied?

to outsiders, kang hui is successful in his career and his wife is a talented person with both good looks and academic qualifications.

if they had a child, it would be a match made in heaven.

but they only seek comfort and enjoyment, so they choose to be dinks.

it was not until 2018 that a phone call from kang hui's sister made kang hui "regret for the rest of his life" for this decision.

what exactly happened in the meantime?

although cctv hosts are also public figures, netizens seem to pay attention to them only on their professional abilities, and no one is curious about their private lives, with kang hui being an exception.

but this has a lot to do with the identity of kang hui's wife.

you may not be too familiar with kang hui’s wife liu yajie, but she is actually also a member of cctv, but she is responsible for the director behind the scenes.

he and kang hui did not meet at cctv, but had known each other since they were in school.

kang hui is a few years older than liu yajie and is her senior. because of their majors, they should have seen each other frequently, but at that time, kang hui was so absorbed in his studies that he didn't pay any attention to the girls around him.

he and liu yajie were introduced by their classmates.

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they were not familiar with each other at the time, but it was kang hui's calm and steady temperament that liu yajie could not forget. so with liu yajie's efforts, the two of them got in touch.

but they had not been together for long as kang hui graduated and they could not be together all the time. but after all, career and love are equally important, and they worked hard to balance their relationship well during this period.

the above information comes from: china news network - dalian evening news 2012.8.24 [cctv anchor kang hui's wife's photo exposed, 12 years of marriage and love still as good as ever (photo)]

unlike most couples, we did not experience the curse of breaking up after graduation.

in july 1993, kang hui relied on his extraordinary ability to get a job at cctv. however, his girlfriend liu yajie, who graduated two years later than him, was first accepted by a tv station in nanjing.

after finally enduring two years of living away from home, liu yajie was unwilling to leave kang hui again, so she gave up this job opportunity and turned to behind the scenes, becoming the director and producer of the show "zhengda variety show".

perhaps it was this kind of mutual sacrifice that allowed the two of them to spend more time together, and their relationship warmed up. they entered the marriage hall in 2000, and they had waited for this day for 8 years.

because both husband and wife have low-key personalities, they didn’t make a big announcement when they got married. only relatives, friends, and a few close colleagues attended.

although they all work at cctv, like most young people, they live in a simple two-bedroom apartment and do not own a luxury car.

everything was just right for the newlyweds, except that they might need to move to a bigger house after having a child. however, everyone, especially kang hui's parents, waited and waited but never saw the day.

at the beginning, their parents respected their busy work schedules and did not rush them. however, as they grew older, liu yajie's belly still did not move, which made kang hui's parents very anxious.

who would have thought that after urging, what we got was the news that kang hui and liu yajie were planning to be dinks.

because they were too successful at work, the couple had no time and were unwilling to give up their jobs to raise a child. when kang hui's parents first heard the news, they also tried their best to persuade them.

but kang hui and his wife liu yajie are still quite firm in their ideas. they even feel that raising two stray cats is a comfort to their hearts.

after one or two attempts to persuade them to no avail, kang hui's parents gradually gave up.

kang hui saw that his parents had let go of their obsession, so he no longer had any burden. but unexpectedly, after turning 40, kang hui suddenly changed his mind. why?

as our parents get older, their health deteriorates day by day, and various diseases will devour them like a flood or a beast.

kang hui's father was not spared and was diagnosed with cancer. in 2005, it took less than a year from the time he was hospitalized to his death. his mother told him that his father's last wish was not to have a grandson.

in fact, if i could understand the meaning of motherhood at that time, it would be completely possible for me to have a child with liu yajie, who was 30 years old.

however, kang hui and his wife did not think it through at the time and insisted on being dinks for more than ten years.

during these ten years, my mother was depressed all day long because of her husband's death, and the disease took advantage of this period to enter. although kang hui had already established a firm foothold in cctv at this time, he also had enough ability to treat his mother.

the above information comes from: zhongyuan.com 2021.2.18 [portraits of wives of famous cctv hosts: mrs. ren luyu has a net worth of over 100 million yuan, and mrs. kang hui has been a dink for 20 years]

but the saddest thing is the difficulty in getting medical treatment despite having money. my mother can only rely on regular dialysis to maintain her life.

at the end of 2011, when kang hui was about to board a plane for a trip, his sister called him and told him too calmly that their mother had passed away.

kang hui was filled with mixed feelings at this time. he had been away from his parents for a long time because of his work. he had also used work as an excuse to tell his parents that he had chosen to be a dink.

but now his mother has passed away, and he cannot go home immediately to attend the funeral because of work. during the flight, kang hui went from being unable to accept it at first to being overwhelmed with sadness, and he ran to the bathroom many times to release his emotions.

he was very regretful about all this, but as a professional host, the subsequent work had to proceed as normal, and he could only quickly adjust his mood. after all, he was also responsible to all the audience.

however, after experiencing all this, kang hui completely changed his mind. he even said on a show that if he had the chance to start over, he would definitely have children.

but it was too late for kang hui and his wife, who were over 50 years old.

but if you look at it from another angle, he was born in an ordinary family and worked his way up to the top news broadcasting platform in china step by step, so he is naturally a leader.