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when children are physically punished, parents also feel pain, but they should turn the pain into reflection.

recently, netizen mr. wang wrote that his 14-year-old daughter was physically punished by her teacher until she became unconscious during training at kezhen quality education school in langchenggang town, zhongmu county, and is currently receiving emergency treatment in the hospital.

according to the report of "zhongmu release" on september 4, after investigation, it was found that when wang was participating in physical training at henan kezhen development service co., ltd., instructor wu punished him by making him stand and drag him, causing minor physical injuries. wang is now receiving treatment in the hospital and his condition is stable. at present, criminal compulsory measures have been taken against the instructor involved in accordance with the law, and henan kezhen development service co., ltd. has been closed and is being banned according to the law. according to the investigation results, the relevant companies and relevant responsible persons will be severely dealt with in accordance with the law.

mr. wang said in an interview with the media that his daughter was a little tired of studying, and he wanted to send her to learn chinese culture and receive psychological counseling, and add some physical training. he never thought that the "education" his daughter received would be like this, such as "being dragged out to the sun by the school instructor when she was exhausted" and "hitting her head with her hair tied to a pillar". mr. wang said that his daughter was covered with bruises and was currently in a coma.

the original intention of education is to inspire and train children, not to hurt them. the essence of education is love and understanding, and to protect the physical and mental health of minors, not violence and obedience. judging from the existing information, the practice of this education school is more like "stick education" in the name of "quality development." because the child did not complete the training task as required, the instructor punished her with corporal punishment such as standing and dragging. in essence, it is forcing the child to obey, which not only causes physical damage to the child, but also is like a nightmare. the psychological harm to her may be greater, which runs counter to the original intention of the parents. such instructors and such education schools lack professional ethics and educational sentiments, and also violate the law on the protection of minors.

mr. wang said that his daughter had written three "help letters" but all of them were intercepted. before that, the school did not allow parents to contact their children. the family was not notified until his daughter was sent to the hospital. at that time, his daughter had been in the school for 2 months. he does not need financial compensation, "the perpetrator must be severely punished."

in addition to severe punishment, there are also things worth pondering, and some parents should also wake up. such educational schools, including some "internet addiction treatment" institutions, may charge high fees, so why are they repeatedly exposed for abusing and corporal punishment of students? this requires the relevant regulatory authorities to intervene in a timely manner and follow up from the system to prevent similar incidents from happening again.

on the other hand, reflecting on parents, why do such institutions have a market among some parent groups? for example, mr. wang mentioned that his daughter is tired of studying. in this case, parents should actively cooperate with the school and teachers in terms of learning interest and learning ability, provide targeted education for their children, and give their children more care.without strictly examining their qualifications, the children are directly handed over to so-called training institutions for correction. this kind of hands-off family education method is not advisable and is not encouraged.

the meaning of parents' existence is not to give their children a comfortable and wealthy life, but that when children think of their parents, they will feel warm in their hearts, thus having the courage and ability to overcome difficulties. there may be many reasons why children hate studying, but as parents, have you ever asked yourself: "what have i done? does my child feel loved and warm?"

whether it is school education or family education, it is inseparable from love and understanding. if parents have expectations for their children, they should treat them sincerely, give them constant praise, and motivate their children to develop in the direction they expect. parents need to do many things themselves, and cannot always think of paying others to do it for them.

therefore, this incident also reminds more parents,the lesson of family education is long and must be taught by parents themselves. otherwise, some of the work done by others may be in vain or even lead to tragedy.after all, when a child is physically punished, it is also painful for the parents, but the pain in their hearts should be turned into reflection.

peng zhiqiang, red star news commentator

editor zhao yu