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The blood relationship between brothers and sisters is thicker than water, and it is also one of the purest and most simple emotional bonds in life.

However, if you are not careful in your daily interactions, you may accidentally touch upon some "taboos", which will cast a shadow on this precious friendship. The following are three "taboos" that should be avoided when brothers and sisters get along.

1. Avoid the “comparison mentality”

"Comparing yourself to others is frustrating." This saying is especially true among brothers and sisters. Every child is a treasure in the eyes of their parents, but the differences in growth environment, personality, endowment, opportunities and circumstances make us all have different speeds in the race of life.

However, it is precisely this difference that often becomes a hotbed for comparison. If you use "who is more promising" or "who is more loved by parents" as a yardstick to constantly measure each other, it will not only hurt each other's self-esteem, but also erode the harmony between siblings.

Everyone is unique and has his or her own brilliance. Only by learning to appreciate rather than compare can the love between brothers and sisters be like a pair of lotus flowers, complementing each other and blooming together.

2. Avoid being too selfish