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it may be illegal for a wife to deduct pocket money from her husband

2024-10-03

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jimu news commentator qu jing

on october 1, the "chongqing municipal measures for the implementation of the anti-domestic violence law of the people's republic of china" was officially implemented. the article clearly mentions that restricting normal social interactions, implementing abnormal economic controls, and using online means to commit domestic violence are all domestic violence.

this made many netizens jokingly say: "it's dawn for 'raking ears' in chongqing!" if a wife restricts her husband's normal social interactions and implements abnormal economic control, it is suspected of breaking the law. (according to guangming.com on october 1)

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for a long time, domestic violence has been limited to physical harm in public perception, especially physical violence by men against women. this stereotype not only limits the scope of protection of anti-domestic violence laws, but also makes it difficult for many potential victims to realize themselves, do not know how to speak out, and silently endure mental torture and economic exploitation.

in fact, true anti-domestic violence protects the dignity and safety of all family members, regardless of gender, age or social status. this principle is particularly evident in the local anti-domestic violence regulations issued by chongqing. chongqing’s new “anti-domestic violence” regulations are a vivid interpretation of this principle. it clearly states that domestic violence that restricts normal social interactions, implements abnormal economic control, and uses internet means is considered domestic violence. category. this provision undoubtedly provides strong legal support for those members who suffer non-physical injuries in the family.

among them, the implementation of abnormal economic control is listed as a type of domestic violence, which is particularly eye-catching. in many families, the control of economic power is often regarded as a symbol of power. in some areas, men take the initiative to hand over their wages and let their wives manage the money, which is regarded as "wife-loving" and "responsible". this kind of concepts have a certain mass and social basis.

however, when the voluntary "money is for you" evolves into compulsory economic control, even accompanied by emotional suppression and deprivation, its nature changes fundamentally. what was supposed to be a beautiful vision of mutual support and joint management between husband and wife has turned into unilateral control and harsh criticism, which will also cast a shadow on the warm family relationship. this kind of economic soft violence not only deprives individuals of their economic autonomy, but also makes the victims fall into deep isolation and helplessness, making them "prisoners" in their families. the introduction of this new regulation in chongqing is a powerful response to this invisible domestic violence. it reminds us that true family relationships should be based on mutual respect and equality, rather than unilateral control and dependence.

of course, some netizens pointed out that to what extent is the common "raking ears" and "paying living expenses" a reasonable division of labor for family property management? to what extent is domestic violence, and how should it be defined? and, will this legislation make some people feel justified in not taking on family financial responsibilities? this is indeed an issue that needs to be continuously refined and clarified in judicial practice. judicial organs should make reasonable judgments in specific cases based on cultural customs and the actual family situation. they should not only adhere to the bottom line and principles of the law and have zero tolerance for domestic violence, but also fully consider cultural customs and the actual family situation, and guide society to form correct policies. value-oriented, avoid overcorrection and waste of judicial resources.

the implementation of new regulations will inevitably face difficulties and challenges, but this does not mean that we should shrink from moving forward. on the contrary, continuous deepening and innovation are the only way for legal progress. chongqing's creative implementation of local anti-domestic violence regulations is not only an expansion and extension of the national anti-domestic violence legal system, but also a profound education and comprehensive mobilization for the entire society. summarizing and enumerating specific illegal forms can make us more clearly aware that domestic violence is not only a physical conflict, but also a full range of mental, economic and even cyberspace oppression. only by facing up to the serious harm caused by these hidden acts of domestic violence and speaking out openly can we classify attacks, implement precise policies, and form a strong joint force to resist domestic violence.

for new regulations to play a strong leading and normative role, they also require the active cooperation and effective implementation of all departments and links. relevant departments must, in accordance with the new regulations, explore new methods, formulate and refine specific measures, and strengthen the prevention and intervention of various forms of domestic violence, especially those invisible domestic violence behaviors that require early detection, early intervention, and early treatment. .

at the same time, we must take the implementation of new regulations as an opportunity to strengthen anti-domestic violence education, deepen and strengthen the social consensus of "zero tolerance for domestic violence", continue to eliminate the old concept of "family scandals should not be publicized", encourage victims to speak out, and advocate for all the society pays attention and efforts together to protect the dignity and happiness of every family member, making home truly the warmest and most peaceful harbor for everyone.