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"wish mr. xu shaoqiang a safe journey!"

this is the status that sydney updated on the social platform after xu shaoqiang passed away, and it is also the tribute that many people expected to see.

but some people say that this word is inappropriate and "wish" should not be used. i will not comment on this.

because anyone who knows their story will think that xue li is a kind and generous person.

i believe everyone is familiar with xu shaoqiang. as a famous hong kong actor, he has played countless classic roles and left a deep impression on the audience.

therefore, his death is a great loss to the fans.

but as a man, he was a playboy and had three marriages. he also had a relationship with actress xue li.

so, now that he has passed away, many people are watching sydney's attitude.

when it comes to xue li, people's deepest impression of her is li mochou in the return of the condor heroes.

therefore, people say that her life is just like li mochou's, ruined by a "lu zhanyuan", and a good hand of cards was ruined.

in fact, as an actress, xue li’s classic roles include not only li mochou, but also kang min in "demi-gods and semi-devils" and zhao ya in "a step into the past".

if it weren't for that relationship, perhaps her career would have developed better. her elder sister is the popular michelle yim, who once said that her sister's acting skills are better than hers.

unfortunately, there is no if.

shirley was brought into the film and television industry by her elder sister michelle. she could have become even more famous with her beauty and talent for acting.

unfortunately, she met the wrong person. her relationship with xu shaoqiang brought her a bad name, delayed her career, and ruined her life.

her sister michelle also worried a lot about her affairs.

xue li entered the entertainment industry at the age of 14 and collaborated with chow yun-fat in "family ties".

she then played princess pingping in "young heroes" starring michael miu, felix wong and others.

at this rate, her acting career should have been smooth, but unexpectedly, at the age of 17, she met xu shaoqiang.

xu shaoqiang was 15 years older than her, handsome and good at coaxing people. the naive xue li was completely bewitched by him.

she thought she had met her true love.

little did people know that xu shaoqiang had already been married.

xu shaoqiang’s first wife was not in the entertainment industry, and their marriage lasted only four years.

two years after his divorce, xu shaoqiang got married again.

he also had a son, xu yidong, with his second wife.

when michelle met him, he was already married for the second time and had a child, but shirley was not aware of this.

xu shaoqiang is handsome and mature, while xue li is pure and beautiful. he takes good care of her, and xue li, who is just beginning to fall in love, thinks this is love.

soon, she fell.

when her elder sister michelle heard that her younger sister was in love with xu shaoqiang, she went to her to confirm it.

xue li also admitted it generously, and she also asked her sister what kind of person she was.

michelle yim is older than her sister and entered the entertainment industry earlier, so she naturally knows a lot about what’s going on in the industry. when she learned that her sister fell in love with xu shaoqiang, she immediately advised him to stop because he was married with children and being with him would undoubtedly be like throwing herself into a flame.

xue li never thought that being in a relationship could be so serious, because xu had always told her that he was single and unmarried.

she didn't believe he would lie to her.

because he was so good to her.

michelle wants her sister to face the reality. not only is he married, he also has a son. she hopes her sister will leave him because this is destined to be a fruitless relationship.

not only will you be criticized for this, but it will also ruin your career.

although xue li didn't believe that xu would lie to her, she also knew that her sister was doing it for her own good and would not lie to her. she was unwilling to accept this and went to confront xu shaoqiang.

xu shaoqiang is like most men who change their minds.

he admitted that he was married with children, but he had no feelings for his wife.

xue li didn't want to be the third party that destroyed someone else's family, so she decided to break up.

unfortunately, at this time she discovered that she was pregnant.

she was conflicted: should she give birth or not? should she separate or not?

she doesn't know.

xu shaoqiang is the best at grasping women's minds.

he continued to use sweet words to coax sydney into giving birth to the child and promised to marry her.

xue li was bewitched and believed him.

for this reason, he even fell out with his sister and mother.

in 1983, xue li gave birth to her son xu weidong in hong kong. she was 18 years old that year and was happily waiting for xu shaoqiang to marry her and take her home.

unexpectedly, xu shaoqiang didn't want to get divorced at all. he just wanted the red flag to fly at home and the colorful flags to fly outside, so he coaxed both his wife and xue li around.

in 1985, xue li tried to put pressure on xu shaoqiang through the media and took the initiative to reveal that she had given birth to his son.

when xu shaoqiang's wife found out, she had a big fight with him and divorced him the following year. his son lived with his ex-wife.

xue li then realized that xu shaoqiang had been lying to her, but because they had a son, she had deep feelings for him, and he was divorced, which gave her hope.

in 1987, xueli was pregnant again, and xu shaoqiang told her that they would get married after the baby was born. xueli believed him.

in 1988, xue li gave birth to daughter xu yingkun.

at this time, xue li was still looking forward to marriage.

but xu shaoqiang did not mention it on his own initiative, so xue li proposed marriage when her daughter was three months old.

xu shaoqiang also agreed, but on the day he went to sign the registration, he "forgot" to bring the divorce certificate.

only then did xue li understand.

he didn't want to marry her at all, but she was unwilling to give up. she had been with him for so many years and had a son and a daughter. she still had expectations for xu shaoqiang.

however, xu shaoqiang, who was a playboy by nature, could not control himself at all.

not only did he ignore xue li and no longer care for her as before, but he was also frequently involved in gossip scandals.

xue li couldn't accept it. after enduring it for two years, she reluctantly broke up with xu and moved to canada with her two children and mother.

it was not easy for xue li, an unmarried woman with a pair of children, to return to filming in order to raise her children, which led to the later role of the red-cloaked fairy li mochou.

although elder sister michelle was angry at her younger sister's persistence back then.

but she couldn't bear to see her sister suffer in raising the children, so she often helped her sister, took care of her two nephews, and supported their studies and all choices.

after xue li broke up with xu shaoqiang, there has been no news of her dating or getting married. apart from filming, she rarely appears in public.

after the breakup, xu shaoqiang married a dancer 30 years younger than him and had a son and a daughter when he was 50 years old.

now he died suddenly of illness, and his wife, who was 30 years younger than him, also died of a heart attack while helping him deal with his funeral affairs, leaving behind a pair of children in their early twenties.

his final affairs were left to the care of his children with xue li, which is truly a cause for regret.

as a mother of two children, sydney also gave him the greatest respect by publicly posting a message on the social platform to mourn him and wish him a good journey, showing her magnanimity.

in fact, sydney has done quite well over the years.

after the separation, she never blamed or complained, and never went back to bother him. instead, she worked hard, accompanied her two children, and lived her life quietly with her family and sister.

now that xu shaoqiang has passed away, she not only asked her two children to help with his funeral, but also posted a message to mourn him, which not only shows her kindness, but also her generosity and decency.

some people say that xue li met xu shaoqiang when she was 17 years old, and the grudges of more than 30 years were finally resolved at this moment.

in fact, xue li might have been unwilling, but she let it go the moment she decided to leave. now, decades later, her heart has long been clear and tolerant.

for her, herself, her children, and her family are the most important. past love is gone, and the present is the most precious.