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Recently, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan's adopted daughter Xu Duo posted photos of Xu Fan's 57th birthday on social media. The family of three in the photos looks very warm.

57-year-old Xu Fan wore light makeup and had short black hair, and she still looked elegant. Her daughter Xu Duo was also good-looking and looked like her father Feng Xiaogang. The 66-year-old Feng Xiaogang had white hair and a white beard, and his eyes were tired, and he looked very old.

In one of the photos, Xu Fan leaned sideways and kissed Feng Xiaogang on the cheek, while Feng Xiaogang hugged his wife tightly with one hand. The picture looked very affectionate. Some netizens lamented that the old couple are still so affectionate.

But some netizens joked that how could Xu Fan kiss someone, and thought that Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang's "love" was just a show.

Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan met in 1991 for the film "Big Spender" and got married in 1999. They have known each other for 33 years and been married for 25 years. Why are there still netizens who are not optimistic about their marriage? In fact, if you look closely at their marriage, you will find that Xu Fan's efforts behind the scenes are not simple.

One of the main reasons why Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan's marriage is not favored is because of Feng Xiaogang's ex-wife Zhang Di. For many years, there have been rumors that Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di divorced because of Xu Fan.

When Feng Xiaogang met Xu Fan, he had not yet divorced his ex-wife. He and his ex-wife divorced in 1999, and he married Xu Fan in the same year.

As for Xu Fan's marriage with Feng Xiaogang, it was not easy. Xu Fan put herself in a very low position from the beginning, comparing herself to an "abandoned baby", saying that Feng Xiaogang adopted her soul and was her benefactor in this life, and that Feng Xiaogang was treating her well with his life.

When asked which title she would prefer, "actress Xu Fan" or "Feng Xiaogang's wife", she chose "Feng Xiaogang's wife" without hesitation.

After getting married, Xu Fan devoted herself wholeheartedly to "taking care of" Feng Xiaogang. She said that if she didn't take care of Feng Xiaogang, she would feel sorry for him.

In order to take better care of Feng Xiaogang, she drastically reduced her work. Feng Xiaogang himself admitted that Xu Fan took care of him and turned him into a "useless person."

Xu Fan once shared that she would cook and clean up at home, and when the meal was ready, the things were also cleaned up, so that Feng Xiaogang would not have to do it himself. Feng Xiaogang said that Xu Fan was like his mother, and Xu Fan did not deny it, saying that she was his "stepmother".

It is obvious that Xu Fan is the "devoted" type in the marital relationship, but Xu Fan is not only devoted to Feng Xiaogang, but also emotionally indulgent.

When Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan first got together, they were not famous yet. But later, Feng Xiaogang became a "fifth-generation director" on par with Chen Kaige and Zhang Yimou, and his status in the circle was unparalleled. As a result, there were more "scandals" around him. Once, photos of him spending 8 hours with a female star were exposed.

Xu Fan's response to the Feng Xiaogang scandal surprised many netizens. She said that since the man is in her family, he will not suffer any loss, and if others are willing to let him take advantage, then let him take advantage. Anyway, she thinks she is just "protecting her own son."

But many people may have overlooked the first few sentences of Xu Fan's words: since it is useless to watch it, then just don't watch it. This sentence also reveals Xu Fan's helplessness, because she knows that no matter what her attitude is, she can't stop these "scandals" from appearing.

Feng Xiaogang is now 66 years old, and his influence in the film industry is not as great as before. He can't even sit in the front row at various award ceremonies.

Nowadays, we can often see Feng Xiaogang appearing with his wife Xu Fan on various occasions.

Perhaps for Xu Fan, this marriage was ultimately happy, but her dedication and forbearance were indispensable behind this happiness.