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On the day of Chinese Valentine's Day, 45-year-old actor Tong Dawei posted photos of him and his wife celebrating the festival in Anaya.

The two smiled at each other at the beach. Although there were no fancy clothes or intimate actions, they had the tacit understanding of an old couple and felt sparks flying.

It is reported that the two got married in 2007. During the long 17-year marriage, they gave birth to two daughters and one son in a low-key manner, and lived a peaceful but happy life.

However, compared to her husband's acting career which has always been at the forefront, his wife Guan Yue's presence in the entertainment industry is not high, even though she is also a regular graduate of Beijing Film Academy.

But just after her debut, before she became famous, she married the "potential stock" Tong Dawei, and since then gradually faded out of the screen, becoming a good wife and mother.

It is said that the entertainment industry is like a dye vat. Model celebrity couples have staged divorce dramas one after another, but Guan Yue is "as steady as a rock" and has always been close and loving with Tong Dawei.

Now she is 45 years old, but she is well-maintained, calm and confident. But I believe this is definitely not the only secret for her to manage her marriage so well.

1. Heaven's Proud Daughter

Guan Yue was born in Changchun, Jilin in 1979 into a wealthy family and both his parents are intellectuals.

Rumor has it that his grandfather's cousin Guan Linzheng is the grandfather of Hong Kong actress Guan Zhilin.

However, due to historical reasons, the two families were separated for many years. It was not until the 1980s, shortly after Guan Yue was born, that they reunited in Changchun.

In other words, Guan Yue is a descendant of the famous Guaerjia clan. Although her family seems to have fallen on hard times, it can still be inferred that their power is much stronger than that of ordinary families.

In the same year, a baby boy was born in an ordinary family in Fushun, Liaoning, and was named Tong Dawei.

His father is a traffic policeman. Although his family is not well off, his parents love each other and they live happily.

But the good times did not last long. When Tong Dawei was 6 years old, his father met with an accident during a mission and became a vegetable.

Helplessly, the mother could only support the entire family and raise a daughter and a son on her own shoulders.

Tong Dawei was very sensible. At the age of 7, he could cook, change gas tanks, and carry 50 kilograms of rice.

Moreover, he had a strong ability to imitate since he was a child, and began to be interested in acting. He even wanted to apply to the local drama school to study drama, but was opposed by his mother.

On the other hand, Guan Yue has been versatile and good at singing and dancing since she was a child. Her parents also paid special attention to her training and sent her to the Children's Palace to learn various talents.

As she grew up, she appeared in many commercials and won awards in various singing and acting competitions.

In 1996, Guan Yue, who was studying at a normal technical secondary school, was preparing to become a teacher in the future, while Tong Dawei entered Liaoning Vocational Art School in the same year.

During this period, he performed as an extra by chance and was praised by the assistant director for his "good image".

Perhaps it was this sentence that made Tong Dawei more determined to become an actor in the future. The following year, the acting department of Shanghai Theatre Academy came to Dalian to recruit students, so he went there alone.

Although she had prepared a dance before the art exam, she was so nervous that she forgot about it and just temporarily performed a piece of radio gymnastics. Unexpectedly, she was chosen by the teacher and finally she was successfully admitted with the second place in professional courses.

Guan Yue graduated a year later and became a primary school teacher, but she soon lost patience with the boring life and told her parents: "I want to go to Beijing."

Despite the opposition, he resigned after hesitating for half a year and came to the performance department of Beijing Film Academy for the art examination.

That was in 2000. The 21-year-old girl made a bet with her friends and, after two years of working in Beijing, she was admitted to the acting class taught by Huang Lei, and became classmates with Dong Xuan, Zhang Ziyi's future sister-in-law Yin Xu and others.

At this time, Tong Dawei had already made his debut. He participated in his first TV series in 1998 and later appeared in one or two works every year.

In school, Guan Yue and Dong Xuan had the best relationship. Once, the two sisters were chatting. Dong Xuan held a magazine and said to Guan Yue, pointing to the boy with small eyes on the top:

"Do you think this person is your type?"

Guan Yue took a look and asked, "Who is Tong Dawei?"

——At that time, Guan Yue didn’t know that the fate between the two had already quietly begun.

2. Love at first sight

In 2001, Tong Dawei successively produced film and television works such as "Date at the Aquarium" and "Young Justice Bao". Although the response was mediocre, he was actually already well-known in the circle.

In the same year, he went to Beijing for work. In his free time, he went to Beijing Film Academy to visit friends. He accidentally saw Guan Yue walking out of the classroom and fell in love with her at first sight.

However, Tong Dawei had little confidence at that time. He felt that he had no fame and no money, but he still asked around for news about the other party and talked to her whenever he got the chance.

After that, he would find opportunities to watch Guan Yue rehearse every weekend, and seeing that she would sometimes look at him, he felt that "there was a chance."

But in fact, Guan Yue had already been "tired" of Tong Dawei. She didn't like the sudden appearance of a stranger in the rehearsal room, especially since her performance was still immature and she didn't want to show it to outsiders.

Guan Yue was thinking, "Why is he here to watch us rehearse? Why isn't he leaving yet?"

But because Tong Dawei was a friend of his acting assistant, he couldn't express it directly.

Later, the man came up with a new way to ask her to sing, and the two of them became closer and closer. More than a year later, they finally broke through the window paper and started dating.

During this period, Tong Dawei's career made great progress. He gained the attention of the audience for his role as the "rich boy" Yang Rui in the anti-drug drama "Jade Guanyin" starring him and Sun Li, and also won the Golden Eagle Award for Audience's Favorite Actor.

Because of his down-to-earth looks and well-behaved personality, he gained a lot of "sister fans" and "mother fans" - but Tong Dawei didn't know it at the time, but he is still reaping the benefits from it today.

As his career started, his girlfriend Guan Yue also graduated from Beijing Film Academy in 2004 and then stayed on as a teacher.

But she also released the album "Love Notes" and debuted as a singer.

But this album did not attract much attention. After all, talent shows were in full swing at the time, and his identity as a singer did not cause much splash.

Helplessly, Guan Yue began to host the Guangxi TV program "Singing Mountain Songs" and also participated in stage plays, but her development was never as good as Tong Dawei.

Indeed, after this, the man's acting career reached its peak:

The three popular works "Struggle", "Our Youth With Nowhere to Go" and "Days Related to Youth" were broadcast one after another, making Tong Dawei the most popular young actor.

But fame brings trouble. During the filming of "Our Youth With Nowhere to Go", Tong Dawei and actress Jiang Yiyan were rumored to be having an affair.

But what is strange is that in addition to him, the woman also seemed very ambiguous with Chen Daoming, who played her father in the same crew.

Rumor has it that Tong Dawei even broke up with Guan Yue for Jiang Yiyan, but the matter ultimately ended because the woman changed her mind.

But these are just rumors, and there is no solid evidence from the outside world.

In addition, when he was filming "Days Related to Youth", it was rumored that he, who played the male lead, was "targeted" by Bai Baihe, who had just debuted, but Tong Dawei was unmoved.

After that, Tong Dawei starred in many hit dramas in succession, and his resources became better and better. In the same year, he also received the movie "Apple" directed by Li Yu, in which he had a large-scale scene with Fan Moubing...

In real life, his love with Guan Yue also has many twists and turns.

3. Know how to control your husband

Because the agency positioned him as an "idol actor", even though he and Guan Yue had been dating for several years, the two of them had never made it public.

This made both parties feel exhausted, and they often quarreled over trivial matters. Once, Guan Yue suggested that they "calm down."

But what she didn't expect was that two months later the man called her directly and proposed to break up.

It was also during this period that Guan Yue began to take her career seriously and starred in many works, such as "Detective Di Renjie 3" and "Young Lawyer Ji Xiaolan".

During this period, her good friend Dong Xuan, who had always been with her, received a call from Tong Dawei, "I want to come over and apologize to her."

Under Dong Xuan's persuasion, the two people who were once in love sat together again. The man even invited Guan Yue's idol Tony Leung to the dinner table and mentioned marriage on the spot.

And so, in early 2007, the two got their marriage certificate.

A grand wedding was held the following year, and Tong Dawei swore a wedding vow on the spot:

"This is my first wedding and it will be my only wedding."

But the public was not optimistic about the unknown Guan Yue, and were even full of doubts about this marriage. There was also false news that "the woman used her pregnancy to get promoted", which made her very anxious.

Fortunately, her husband always cared for her, especially during her pregnancy. He turned into a "new good man" and agreed with her in everything, which gradually dispelled her doubts.

Especially when speaking to outsiders, Tong Dawei has repeatedly praised his wife, saying that she gave up her career for the family, which is very remarkable.

The couple gave birth to two daughters in 2008 and 2009 respectively. During this period and the following years, Guan Yue hardly went out to work.

It was not until the daughter was asked about her parents' occupations that she suddenly said, "My mother does nothing but take care of the children," which touched Guan Yue deeply.

In 2012, she returned to filming and transformed herself into a producer.

Three years later, 36-year-old Guan Yue gave birth to her third son in a low-key manner, but the incident sparked public discussion after it was exposed, and Tong Dawei was also branded as "favoring sons over daughters."

Fortunately, the couple worked together and successfully overcame the difficulties in a low-key manner.

It can be said that their relationship as husband and wife is indeed a rare gem in the entertainment industry - the two of them seem to have no need for hype, and their love and trust for each other are evident in their eyes and eyebrows, and run steadily.

Tong Dawei once revealed that he has worked with countless actresses over the years since his debut, but there are only the phone numbers of 7 actresses in his mobile phone. Guan Yue was therefore praised by the outside world for her "skill in controlling her husband."

And is all this just because of the love at first sight and the overwhelming love back then?

Not necessarily.

What is not well known is that they are both very clear-headed people. It is reported that as early as 2010, Tong Dawei began to further expand his business empire and successively invested in films such as "Think It Through Before Getting Married" and "Ice River Pursuit".

Guan Yue served as the legal representative of the media company founded by the couple.

In addition, they also invested in smart toothbrushes, 360 children's smart watches and other fields, making a fortune quietly.

Someone has calculated that the couple owns more than 20 companies and also bought a courtyard house in Beijing, where land is extremely expensive, worth hundreds of millions of yuan.

In other words, they are not only each other's lovers and family, but also a deeply bound community of interests.

In addition, several children have grown up well under Guan Yue's training. The eldest daughter Tong Hanyue is 16 years old this year. She is occasionally taken by her mother to participate in various activities. Both her figure and appearance are among the best among the second-generation stars.

However, Tong Dawei and his wife claimed that "they would not let their children enter the entertainment industry." When they were young, they didn't even know what their parents did, and they never thought of letting their children appear in variety shows to make money.

The confidence behind this may come from his father's still brilliant career - although Tong Dawei has occasionally been labeled as "outdated" by the outside world in recent years, he actually has a lot of good shows:

His successive performances in "The Story of Rose" and "Misplacement" are both highly talked-about works.

As for Guan Yue, she appeared in the TV series "The Case Demolition 2" starring her bestie Dong Xuan two years ago, and now she is working with Tong Liya on "Love Without Trace" which is about to be aired.

From this perspective, she not only has the ability to control her husband, but also has her own life firmly in her hands. Therefore, it is not unreasonable that she lives a smooth and happy life now.