Kuaike Liqiu documentary drama "Solution": Untie the knot of emotions and you will be a superman
2024-08-08
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The Beginning of Autumn is the beginning of autumn, but it often takes some time for the heat to dissipate and the cool autumn air to arrive. So people often say, "Autumn has begun, but the heat is hard to dissipate." We cannot see this season full of imagination in August, but fortunately, the Chinese Valentine's Day always appears as the first festival of autumn, giving beautiful expectations to this ordinary time point at the turn of summer and autumn.
When mentioning the Chinese Valentine's Day, people will naturally associate it with the "Chinese Valentine's Day", but in ancient China, the Chinese Valentine's Day was a festival for single women. On this day, girls could dress up and go out to party, and participate in a series of activities such as threading a needle to pray for dexterity and throwing a needle to test dexterity. This was a romantic night unique to women.
In recent years, women's festivals have been increasingly valued, some wrong cognitive labels have been corrected, and many women's issues have often been pushed to the "hot" level, and the power behind this is inseparable from the active voices of many women. At the same time, with the continuous rise of the "her economy", social media and businesses will also begin to cater to women's voices or consumption power, creating the current relatively friendly environment for women. Undoubtedly, the power of "girls helping girls" should not be underestimated. This time, the "Interpretation" of the Beginning of Autumn, which is almost 12 grams, also uses the Chinese Valentine's Day, which is adjacent to the Beginning of Autumn, as the background to show us the beautiful friendship between women:
Although the film Jie uses the Chinese Valentine's Day as an important element, it does not tell a love story. In an unconventional and ideal "all-female" barbershop, female barber Cheng Li not only focuses on improving her skills and providing professional business services to users, but also relies on her innate empathy to keenly observe the emotions and needs of users, and provide emotional support and guidance, ultimately helping them to untie their respective knots.
At every important time, many people, especially women, want to change their hairstyle to welcome a new spirit. Yuan Qiu, who suffers from "haircut phobia", and a young girl who just experienced a breakup, both sat on the barber bench of "Jieyou Barber Shop" on the Chinese Valentine's Day for different reasons.
Yuan Qiu, who seemed calm on the surface, was actually filled with a "dark cloud" in her heart as a barber. She was highly myopic and could not see the haircut process after taking off her glasses, so she was worried about the result. Fortunately, Cheng Li was not like ordinary barbers who had many flaws. As a woman, she not only understood women's aesthetics and needs better, but also understood Yuan Qiu's anxiety. So in the middle of the haircut, Cheng Li asked Yuan Qiu to wear glasses to reduce the anxiety caused by blurred vision, and gradually confirmed the repair process with her, slowly untied Yuan Qiu's fear of haircut.
When the heartbroken girl tried to cut her hair short to say goodbye to the past, and even expressed that she could accept the impulse of baldness, Cheng Li did not agree immediately, but improvised a play with Yuan Qiu, telling a well-intentioned "lie story". Let the girl understand that heartbreak is actually a small matter, and messing with yourself is a big matter. The knot in the heart is like tangled hair. As long as we comb it, it will be untied. As the golden sentence of this episode summarizes: "Untie the knot of emotions, and you will be a superman."
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In most people's professional cognition, there are inevitably certain gender "stereotypes", that is, it is assumed that some work areas are exclusive to men, such as hairstylists in barber shops. When we expand it further, we will find that we are used to calling food deliverymen and couriers "little brothers" and taxi drivers "masters"...
However, it is not only men who have advantages in these jobs. Today, we can see that in some areas where there is a cognitive gap, the power of women is becoming increasingly important. We will find that more and more female hairdressers, female riders, female couriers and female drivers appear in the streets, and some female riders have even formed their own "female takeaway army". In terms of salary, in 2019, women's monthly salary was 23.5% lower than that of men. By 2023, the average salary of women will be only 12% lower than that of men. The salary gap between men and women is narrowing year by year, and the value of women in the workplace is increasingly recognized. [1]
To some extent, this is a product of gender diversity in the workplace, and it also demonstrates the workplace advantages and wisdom of the female group in more dimensions - better communication and emotional connection between people. Just like the female hairdresser Cheng Li portrayed in "The Solution", she knows how to think from the other person's perspective, can understand the other person's care and sensitivity, is good at listening and expressing, and can resolve some of the other person's embarrassment that cannot be expressed. It is in this emotional transmission of empathy that Yuan Qiu and the heartbroken girl can finally untie their knots and truly trust her.
end:
The Beginning of Autumn is a solar term full of warmth and harvest. Girls encourage girls and girls help girls. It also reminds us of the original Chinese Valentine's Day, when girls learned from each other and pursued the pure meaning of progress.
It is said that only girls understand girls best. In fact, it seems that the more similar a human group is, the more empathy they can have for each other. Therefore, what we really hope to see is not just a group, but "people helping people", where everyone can work together to break down all kinds of prejudice and discrimination.
At least in our daily lives, let us start by putting ourselves in each other's shoes and helping each other to untie the knots that are trapping our emotions and even our hearts, so that all the unhappiness and regrets of the summer will blow away with the breeze of the beginning of autumn.
The third season of the documentary series "12 grams of fast" will continue the rhythm of one solar term per month, select representative professions from all walks of life, refine the spirit of fast superman, and create a high-quality brand IP in 2024. #日赚30000快克找你演超人# The event is ongoing, let us look forward to what wonderful stories the autumn chapter will bring to everyone.
【1】2023 China Women’s Workplace Status Survey Report, Zhaopin.com, 2023. (Image provided by Kuake)
Source: China Daily
