2024-10-02
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in the xinhua road area, there used to be zhongqing lane. in september 1949, zhongqing lane police station was established, which was the predecessor of changqing police station. in august 1962, zhongqingxiang police station merged with jianjian road police station and haishigou police station to form thechangqing police station。
the changqing police station, a veteran and the benchmark for police stations across the country, is "hidden" among the twists and turns of the old alleys.
changqing police station has an area of 1.39 square kilometers, with a permanent population of 42,000 and a migrant population of 15,000. in the comprehensive service hall of the police station that has won the title of national women's civilized post, the household registration auxiliary police are responsible for matters related to household registration of residents in the jurisdiction.
the small household registration window also records the warmth and warmth of the world.
a thin household registration book not only reveals the original family information of each of us, but is also closely related to the nodes of each stage of our life from birth to death - birth, study, marriage, employment, death, etc.
the registered civilian auxiliary policemen at the changqing police station are all policewomen. in addition to quickly handling the affairs and providing good service to the residents who come to handle matters, they sometimes act like psychologists.
why does the mother have to change her child's surname?
one day, a mother came to the window for consultation: "i want to change my child's name."
according to the civil code, if a minor over the age of 8 changes his or her name, in addition to the consent of both parents, the person's consent must also be obtained. "both the children and the husband need to be present and they both need to agree."registration police officer wang ya reminded her.
"i want to change my child's surname." the mother said again.
are your parents divorced? but according to regulations, even if parents divorce and the child changes his or her surname, both parties to the divorce and the child must agree.
"no, no, my child's surname is xiao. i want to change it to 'xiao'. they all have the same pronunciation." wang ya looked at the household registration information and said,the child has just entered elementary school and his name is catchy. neither the child's father nor mother's surname is "xiao".
according to the civil code, a natural person should take his father's or mother's surname. if you have one of these circumstances, you can choose a surname other than your father's and mother's surnames:choose the surname of other direct elder blood relatives; choose the surname of the caregiver because he is raised by someone other than the legal caregiver; there are other legitimate reasons that do not violate public order and good customs; the surname of a natural person from an ethnic minority can follow the cultural traditions and customs of the nation.
after wang ya told her the legal terms, she said nothing and left.
the next day, the child’s mother came to the window with her father and child, “if i don’t change it, i won’t be able to eat or sleep.”。
"our old man checked it out and found that our ancestors all had this surname in the family tree." the child's father shook his head helplessly.
according to the household registration information, the child’s grandfather is also named xiao, “according to the law, the child's father, grandfather, and great-grandfather must have the same surname. if the child changes, their surnames must be changed..."wang ya said.
"i don't want to change." the child spoke.
but my mother still refused to give up. a few days later, she came again. wang ya saw that she was a little anxious. what was the reason behind insisting on changing her surname?
"my child is very well-behaved and considerate of others, so we don't have to worry about it." the child's mother sighed and said, "he just doesn't like studying. people say that changing the child's surname can improve his luck. i went to check the information, and it turned out that there is no the surname xiao is a simplified version of the word 'xiao'. since the two words have the same pronunciation, i wanted to change it for my child."
"these two characters are different. they are not related to different characters, nor are they related to traditional and simplified characters. according to the seventh census statistics, the surname xiao ranks 33rd in the country, and there are more than 7 million people with this surname." household registration police after working for a long time, the police had done some research on surnames. wang ya dug out the information and said, "look, it says that these two surnames have been around since the spring and autumn period. there was also a surname named xiao in the han dynasty, and there was also a surname named xiao in the ming dynasty. xiao's jieyuan ranked first in the provincial examination, which was a provincial examination at that time. "
"but this surname is not grand enough and will affect the child's future fortune..." the child's mother said.
wang ya persuaded: "you care about the children, but you are too anxious to think like this now.we adults should not impose our own ideas on our children. as parents, we should spend more time with our children and cultivate their interest in learning. our grades will not improve by changing their names.”
"if i change a surname that has nothing to do with my family, what will my elders think? what will my children's classmates say? will it have a negative impact on my children..." wang yazai was moved emotionally.
finally, my mother figured it out, "if we don't change, let's go back."
lu chunmei, the person in charge of the household registration window, said that in the past two years, some parents have brought their children to change their names. when asked why, they all believed in the saying that "changing names changes fortunes." they hope that after changing their names, their children will study well and be admitted to college. after they understand, they will have a good chat with the parents to "diagnose" the root cause of the problem. they also suggest that parents pay more attention to their children's mental health and accompany their children.
"some adults want to change their names because they also want to change their luck." an uncle in his 60s once came to consult about changing his name. he felt that if he was doing business, he should have the word "fa" in his name, and his business would be better." according to the regulations, this reason is not allowed.”
when you hear someone calling you, you will think of your parents.
according to regulations,if you want to change your name after you become an adult, there are certain conditions. for example, if a male's name is feminine or a female's name is masculine, or if the name contains uncommon words or ambiguous words that cause various inconveniences in life, you can apply for a change.
one day, a girl named shanshan came to the window and said she wanted to change her name.
her name seemed unambiguous and had no uncommon characters. lu chunmei asked her why she wanted to change it.
"i'm afraid of thinking about my parents." a few years ago, shanshan's parents died in a car accident. later, shanshan came to hangzhou to work alone.
"shanshan" is both her nickname and her nickname. colleagues in the company are also accustomed to calling her "shanshan" in a friendly manner.every time she hears her older colleagues call her "shanshan", she falls into a trance and tears fall uncontrollably.。
shanshan said that several times, when she was waiting for the bus at the bus stop, she heard someone shouting "shanshan", "i thought my mother was calling me". she followed the sound to find it, and sometimes missed the time to get on the bus.
once, when shanshan was crossing the road, she heard someone calling her from behind. she turned around and ran over, almost hitting a car. "it was a mother calling a little girl."
"i don't want to go on like this." after hearing shanshan's experience, lu chunmei's eyes turned red. she patiently told shanshan what information was needed for adults to change their names, and asked her thoughtfully if she had any names she had in mind. shanshan took out a piece of paper with three names listed on it, but she had not chosen one yet. .
“changing your name is not a trivial matter and should be done with caution." lu chunmei took a look and saw that the three names of shanshan yiyi had similar meanings. "in addition to having a beautiful connotation, the name also needs to be loud, smooth and unambiguous, and it should also be easier to write. "she helped shanshan analyze it.
lu chunmei noticed that shanshan was depressed when she spoke and comforted her: "you are living alone in hangzhou now. unlike other young people who can go home and complain to their parents when they encounter difficulties, it is really not easy for you. you are under pressure when you encounter problems." , you need to resolve it in time, don’t keep it in your heart, you can also come to me and talk about it.”
a few days later, shanshan came to go through the name change procedures and told lu chunmei that after listening to lu chunmei's words that day, she went to see a psychiatrist after she went back and said that she was a little depressed. "thank you for reminding me in time."
"with a new name, a new life has begun. it will be fine." the girl added lu chunmei on wechat,sometimes, lu chunmei looked through the girl's moments and found that she had become cheerful and sunny, and she was happy for her.
hangzhou post-00s name combination
the most common ones are jiaqi, shiqi, and anqi
in the past two years, every national day holiday, emoticons of singer and actor cai guoqing have spread online and become a cultural phenomenon, expressing everyone's expectations and joy for the national day.
national day, this name has a mark of the times. according to incomplete statistics, there are more than 4,300 people in hangzhou called "national day"; more than 8,600 people in hangzhou called "jianguo"; more than 6,600 people called "guoqiang" in hangzhou, all of whom are under 50 years old. above.
lu chunmei said that the names of the post-00s generation are becoming more and more celebrity-like. the most common characters in the names of the post-00s generation in hangzhou are: zhi, en, xi, qi, etc. the most common name combinations are: jiaqi, shiqi, an qi, junxi, zhixuan, zhihan.
after changing your name, all documents and certificates need to be changed.
according to the civil code, "natural persons have the right to name." after reaching adulthood, they can change their name by registering with the relevant authorities in accordance with the law.
nowadays, many bloggers on social media share posts about changing their names. although some bloggers successfully changed their names, they regretted the various tedious things that followed.
lu chunmei said that according to regulations, after changing a name, the real estate certificate, motor vehicle ownership certificate, bank card... all held under the original name need to be changed accordingly. if academic diplomas are involved, they also need to go to the relevant departments to make changes; like everyone the account number bound to the mobile payment you are now used to using will also need to be changed.