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source | xiaoxiang morning news

reporter | duan yingqi

with the arrival of the national day holiday, not only do everyone get a longer holiday, many people also get more wedding invitations. during the national day holiday, relatives and friends gather together, providing an excellent wedding atmosphere for couples, but getting married together also brings considerable financial pressure to "workers".

schematic diagram. source visual china

recently, there have been endless complaints on social network platforms about the large number of wedding invitations received during the national day. while they are happy for their friends to get married, they are worried about their wallets. some netizens bluntly said that they "hate inviting others to weddings during the national day."

while blessing friends and colleagues on their marriage,

i feel sorry for my wallet

on october 1, mr. yan, a 24-year-old hunan netizen, told a xiaoxiang morning news reporter, “i have already received five wedding invitations before national day, two on the 3rd, two on the 5th, and one on the 6th. it's all a luncheon, and if i go to all of them, i might have to learn the 'shadow clone'."

mr. yan’s monthly salary is about 4,000 yuan, and the national day overtime allowance is about 5,000 yuan. “i have to pay 600 to 800 yuan per person, and i don’t know if i will receive new requests during the national day holiday. this means that my salary and overtime pay for this month are included in it, and i might have to borrow money to pay for it.”

mr. yan expressed his blessing to his friends and colleagues when they got married, but when he thought about the share of money, he couldn't help but shout, "i can't bear it, i can't bear it!"

another 26-year-old hunan netizen, mr. huang, received 8 wedding invitations before the national day. “there are more invitations than my holiday dates. i don’t even know which one i want to go to!”

mr. huang planned to give 600 yuan to each person, "600 is a more auspicious number, but if i pay eight people's shares, my salary for this month will be almost the same. i will be working for them this month."

and feeling sorry for the money is also a common feeling among netizens across the country.

a henan netizen said, "there is no need to pay the salary into the card at all in september."

a netizen from beijing posted, “when i woke up, the sky was falling,” and carefully calculated how much he would spend on national day, “i just received a gift of 1,000 yuan yesterday, and also gave gifts of more than 600 yuan. i woke up this morning and saw another national day wedding invitation, which cost more than three thousand in total. please don’t be so concentrated.”

some netizens even calculated that they would spend 100,000 yuan on national day. the netizen said that friends with good relationships would receive gifts of 10,000 yuan, and those with ordinary relationships would receive gifts of 1,000 or 2,000 yuan. in the chat history between the netizen and his mother, he learned that his cousin was getting married as a gift of one to two thousand yuan, and he immediately joked that he had to wear an ultraman costume to attend the wedding, "otherwise it won't be worth the price."

some netizens said they hate national day weddings

traveling around for the wedding also gives netizens a headache

since the national day wedding trend will take up some rest time during the national day holiday, many upright netizens also bluntly said, "i hate people who invite others to national day weddings."

a shaanxi netizen thought, “it’s really annoying to invite people with both good and bad relationships. it disturbs other people’s holidays.”

a hubei netizen said, "especially if you are stuck on the 3rd and 4th in the middle. how can others do nothing during a seven or eight-day vacation, and then come back to see you get married?"

some netizens from sichuan said that they usually thought it was too early when they asked, but they suddenly announced their marriage on the national day. "who can bear this? i use my money to play with, not to cut it with you."

invitations from friends who are not getting married locally also give netizens a headache. "i just got home on the 1st and had to attend three weddings, and they weren't all in the same place. i'm really busy making a fortune."

some netizens also wanted to take a good nap on the first day of the holiday, but were woken up by the sound of joyful kisses outside.

a staff member of a wedding company also posted to record the addresses of every wedding he planned before and after the national day, and said, "i feel like i started running away from home on the 27th."

in response to this, some netizens posted chat records to teach everyone how to deal with it, "how do you deal with the fact that all the people you check in your circle of friends are married?" "don't check it."

this national day holiday,

how many wedding invitations have you received?

how much money do you usually give?

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