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who says you should settle down at 50?

xu jinglei said: it doesn’t exist!

this former goddess of literature and art has now become the spokesperson of "half a hundred and not enough".

her love history since the age of 19 has been like a wonderful tv series, with the male protagonists changing one after another.

don't think that she only talks about love. she is an actor, director, and producer with multiple identities.

what makes her so "willful" in her love life?

is it really because of "not enough fun"?

speaking of why xu jinglei is so "uninhibited", we have to start from her childhood.

although she looks glamorous now, she was tightly controlled by her father when she was a child.

father xu is simply a living example of "tiger father, no dog girl".

i wish i could turn my daughter into the next picasso, forcing her to practice calligraphy and dancing all day long.

imagine that while other children are playing wildly on the playground after school, little jinglei has to go home to "exercise more".

this is not an ordinary extracurricular class, it is simply a devil’s training camp!

even if he was among the best in school, he was still not qualified in the eyes of xu's father.

gee, this pressure is comparable to the 100-day countdown to the college entrance examination!

however, this pressure-cooker education method became the trigger for xu jinglei's future rebellion.

guess what? she is like a spring that has been suppressed for a long time, and will rebound hard when given the opportunity.

before she was in junior high school, she began to have a strong interest in painting.

when she mustered up the courage to stand in front of her father and said she wanted to learn to draw, she probably even shocked herself.

the scene was like defusing a bomb that would explode if not careful.

but surprisingly, my father agreed!

but don't be too happy too early. in xu's father's opinion, this is just jumping from one "pit" to another.

anyway, it’s all about art. just paint. at least it’s better than thinking about falling in love all day long.

poor father xu didn't know that his decision had completely opened pandora's box.

xu jinglei’s choice during the college entrance examination once again surprised people.

she resolutely applied for the arts and crafts department of the central academy of drama.

this operation is simply a "dark horse" in the art examination world!

the result? his reputation has fallen from sun shan!

but this defeat gave her a sense of relief.

it was as if the shackles of many years were finally loosened.

the acceptance letter from beijing film academy was like a "free pass", opening the door to a new world for her.

from then on, the image of a "good girl" that her father expected to be molded completely collapsed, and a brand new xu jinglei was born.

this is not a small rebellion, but a complete "personal liberation movement"!

xu jinglei was like a butterfly emerging from its cocoon, finally spreading its gorgeous wings.

when you see this, do you think of your youth?

in those years, were we also like xu jinglei, eager to break free and pursue freedom?

it's just that not everyone has the courage to really chase their dreams like her.

so xu jinglei's rebellion is actually a manifestation of courage.

she tells us with practical actions: life should be lived how you want it to be!

with a desire for freedom and a love for art, 19-year-old xu jinglei stepped into the campus of beijing film academy.

who would have thought that this step would become a turning point in her life and pave the way for her future reputation as a "romantic and talented woman".

xu jinglei became an instant hit with "my deskmate" not long after she entered school.

at that time, her eyes were full of youthfulness and melancholy, and she was simply the dream lover of literary young people!

the following song "carry love to the end" showed her strength even more, making people have to look at this newcomer with admiration.

how is this a newcomer? he is simply a "dark horse" in the entertainment industry!

but xu jinglei is not a vase who only knows how to act.

her talent is like an inexhaustible treasure. she is proficient in acting, screenwriting, and directing.

"subway to spring" even won her the title of best actress in "hundred flowers".

this wave of operations is simply an "all-rounder" in the entertainment industry!

look at xu jinglei, and then look at us, and suddenly we feel like we are useless.

speaking of xu jinglei's pinnacle work, we have to mention "du lala's promotion".

this drama not only allowed her to shine in front of the screen, but also allowed her to show her talents behind the scenes.

screenwriter, director, producer, she covers all the "three hats" by herself.

this operation is simply a "one-stop service" in the entertainment industry!

no wonder this drama has become the youth memories of countless people born in the 1990s. xu jinglei is going to take over the youth of the audience!

from obscurity to the throne of "no. 1 sister", xu jinglei used her strength to explain what "one step at a time" means.

her success is not due to anyone's support, but to her own talent and hard work.

in this way, she is not only a "talented woman" in the entertainment industry, but also an idol and role model for countless people.

seeing xu jinglei's success, did you also ignite the enthusiasm for struggle?

don't rush to set the flag. let's see if she is also so cheating in relationships.

speaking of xu jinglei's relationship history, it is really exciting.

her love history since the age of 19 is like a love drama with ups and downs, which is dizzying to watch.

the first person to appear is "rogue writer" wang shuo.

at that time, xu jinglei had just turned 19, which was the age of youth and ignorance.

and what about wang shuo? he is 36 years old and still a married man.

this age difference and identity are simply standard features of a bloody drama!

but xu jinglei didn't care about this at all.

her date with wang shuo was very high-profile, and she even went to wang shuo's house to "force him into the palace" with such arrogance.

this operation is simply textbook-level "mistress" behavior!

but don't rush to label xu jinglei, she can't be defined casually.

don't think that xu jinglei is a playboy.

after wang shuo, she also dated a singer "sambo" who was 6 years older than her for several years.

compared with the vigorous love affairs before, this relationship seemed dull and lasting.

it seems that xu jinglei also has a gentle side.

then she fell in love with actor huang jue for four years.

four years is enough time to discuss marriage.

it's a pity that this relationship ended in vain.

it seems that there is still a hurdle in xu jinglei's heart that she has not overcome.

maybe she's still looking for someone who can truly understand her.

but xu jinglei's luck did not end there.

in 2009, while filming "du lala's promotion", she met the musical talent huang lixing again.

this time xu jinglei seems to have found true love.

although the two have never publicly admitted their relationship, photos of them walking on the street and having dinner together were often taken by the paparazzi.

this relationship has lasted until now, and it is impressively stable.

it seems that xu jinglei has finally found someone who can resonate with her soul.

but what is surprising is that the couple, who have been in love for many years, still have no plans to get married.

in an exclusive interview with lu yu, xu jinglei admitted that she had fears and doubts about marriage.

she believes that marriage is not the only way to happiness, and yesterday's beauty does not mean today's happiness.

this statement is simply the voice of a single person!

but if you think about it carefully, xu jinglei’s point of view makes sense.

looking back at xu jinglei's emotional history, it is not difficult to find that her attitude towards love has always been free and easy.

she doesn't want to be bound by worldly vision and only follows her inner voice.

perhaps this is one of the reasons why she has achieved such success in her acting career.

after all, only a person with inner freedom can show the truest and most moving side in artistic creation.

after seeing this, are you starting to envy xu jinglei’s free and easy attitude?

after talking about xu jinglei's relationship history, let's take a look at her philosophy of life.

50-year-old xu jinglei still lives a free and easy life.

she was not constrained by worldly vision, but insisted on being herself.

this attitude towards life is simply the standard for a winner in life!

looking back at xu jinglei's life trajectory, we can see a clear main line: the pursuit of freedom.

growing up under the high pressure of a strict father made her cherish her freedom as an adult even more.

every choice she makes, whether career or relationship, reflects this desire for freedom.

this kind of persistence is simply the spokesperson of freedom!

some people may say that xu jinglei is "rebellious".

but if you think about it carefully, was her choice really the wrong one?

she has achieved great success in the entertainment industry and has a successful career.

although she experienced several vigorous romances emotionally, she finally found huang lixing who could understand her.

such a life is like someone else’s child!

xu jinglei tells us with her actions: there is no standard answer in life.

everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, and as long as it does not harm others, they should bravely follow their inner voice.