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he missed gong li, married his first love at the age of 29, and stayed together for 30 years. this is the best love

2024-09-19

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thirty years have passed. he zhengjun sits in an old rocking chair at home, silently gazing at his wedding photo with his wife fan yu on the wall. his thoughts travel back to the time when they met and fell in love, as if everything at that time was still vivid in his mind.

at that time, he was just an ordinary painter, living on a meager salary. one day, the central academy of drama began to recruit students, and a friend of he zhengjun wanted to sign up for the exam, so he half-jokingly called he zhengjun.

unexpectedly, fate played a big joke on he zhengjun. he was admitted to the school, but his friend was not.

in this way, he zhengjun began his career of learning opera and opened a new chapter in his life. during an outdoor shooting in yunnan, he met fan yu, a girl six years younger than him.

the two of them quickly established a tacit understanding where they could talk about anything. fan yu was smart, considerate, and had many common topics to talk about with he zhengjun. in their spare time, they would go out to eat, watch movies, and go shopping together.

on the eve of their separation, he zhengjun was worried that he would miss this girl again, just like he missed gong li, and regret it for the rest of his life, so he plucked up the courage to express his feelings to fan yu.

after spending a long time together, fan yu had a deep understanding of he zhengjun's character and accepted his confession without hesitation.

it all started when he zhengjun was young and studying at the central academy of drama. at that time, he was handsome and became a popular figure in the school. he often received love letters and passionate pursuits from girls. however, he zhengjun didn't care about it at all. he didn't even open the envelopes of those love letters, as if they were not written to him.

the classmates in the class saw this and secretly wondered if he zhengjun was not interested in women. a few bold girls even ran directly to he zhengjun's dormitory, trying to get more contact with this campus celebrity, but he zhengjun just chatted with them for a few words out of politeness, without any ambiguous intentions.

i don't know exactly which year it was, but he zhengjun was temporarily entrusted by the school to be in charge of welcoming new students. one hot afternoon, he first saw gong li, who had phoenix eyes. her eyes were clear and moving.

he zhengjun fell in love with her at first sight and began to pursue her fervently. every day in the dormitory, he played guitar and sang for gong li. the two of them were always inseparable. in the eyes of others, they were simply a perfect couple made in heaven.

unfortunately, the young he zhengjun and gong li only stayed on the edge of friendship and did not have the courage to break through that layer of window paper. in this way, four years passed quickly and gong li was about to graduate and leave school.

before leaving, his good friend jin lili couldn't bear it anymore and encouraged he zhengjun to go to the train station to confess his love to gong li and not miss his beloved.

unfortunately, he zhengjun still didn't have the courage to face the sound of the train leaving, and could only watch gong li leave her destination and miss her sweetheart.

unexpectedly, fate favored gong li so much that when she was on the rise, she met zhang yimou, a troubled man. zhang yimou took a strong interest in this fresh girl and gave her a lot of special care during the filming process, which led to rumors about their affair, and zhang yimou even abandoned his wife for gong li.

unfortunately, this high-profile relationship only lasted seven years, and gong li eventually chose to leave zhang yimou because she was disappointed with him. compared with them, he zhengjun's life trajectory is ordinary, but he has made steady progress step by step without giving up halfway.

during the location shooting in yunnan, he zhengjun fell in love with his co-star fan yu at first sight. fan yu is six years younger than him and has the charm of gong li when she was young, but she is more lively and cheerful. the two quickly established a tacit understanding on the set, and even in their spare time, they like to go out for dinner, watch movies, and go shopping together.

after the work was finished, he zhengjun was afraid of missing out on opportunities due to hesitation, just like he once missed gong li, so he decided to express his love to fan yu on the last day before leaving.

after spending some time together, fan yu had already gotten to know he zhengjun deeply, so she accepted his feelings without hesitation.

so, the two began a long-distance relationship. although they were far apart, their feelings did not weaken. on the contrary, this longing for each other sharpened their love.

every day, he zhengjun would lovingly call fan yu who was thousands of miles away to share with her the various trivial things that happened that day.

after a long wait, the two finally tied the knot in the presence of their relatives and friends. soon after their marriage, an angelic daughter also came into their home.

the arrival of this little life gave he zhengjun's life new meaning and purpose.

in order to give his wife and daughter a stable and happy home, he zhengjun began to devote himself to work. he starred in many important works such as "national anthem", "sniper team", "the eastward flowing river", and the anti-corruption theme "no trace of snow", and his career took off and his income also rose accordingly.

however, this also meant that he spent less and less time at home, and his daughter's cold attitude towards him made him realize the importance of family.

in fact, there is a special reason behind he zhengjun's decision to participate in the tv series "drawing sword" about the anti-japanese war. his father was a brave soldier and always hoped that his son could contribute to and defend the country like him.

although he zhengjun eventually entered the acting industry, he finally realized his father's wish through the filming of this drama. the production team of "bright sword" used the troops where his father once served as the background, and every scene and every shot made him recall his deep longing for his father.

in order to restore the battle scenes of his father in the script as realistically as possible, he zhengjun had very strict requirements on the script and details during the filming process. in this way, he zhengjun fulfilled his father's dream of becoming a soldier.

after finishing the filming, he took a break to reflect on his recent neglect of his wife and daughter. he decided to spend more time and energy on his family in the year when his daughter is about to take the college entrance examination.

every morning at 5 o'clock, he zhengjun gets up and prepares a nutritious breakfast. after that, he drives his daughter to school and stays there until she finishes school. he always waits at the school gate in advance so that his daughter will not wait too long and affect her studies.

afterwards, they returned home and he zhengjun would carefully check his daughter's homework for the day.

the daughter quietly passed a year in the review day after day, and he zhengjun carefully took care of her every day. finally, the daughter got into her ideal university as she wished.

faced with the scene of his daughter leaving home to study, he zhengjun felt a sense of relief, but at the same time he also lamented the passing of time.

he zhengjun resumed acting after his daughter went to college, but compared to the past, he spent more time with his wife and family. when his wife fan yu was doing housework at home, he would take the initiative to share the chores, and even occasionally cook a few of his signature dishes to surprise his wife.

after their daughter comes home for the holidays, the three of them will basically choose to go out traveling from time to time, enjoy the fun brought by outdoor sports, climb mountains together, and breathe the fresh air of nature.

sometimes, they would choose to play chess and cards at home and enjoy the warmth of the family. in such a life, he zhengjun gradually experienced true happiness.

in the game of life, every move must be made carefully. if you make a mistake, you may never recover. he zhengjun's ignorance and timidity when he was young made him miss his beloved gong li. fortunately, he finally mustered up the courage and reached out to the love of his heart, and finally achieved success in both career and family.

everyone has regrets in life, the key is to live in the present and make the most of what is in front of you. he zhengjun's happiness and stability today are largely due to his ability to always balance the focus of life.

when his career was at its peak, he could decisively put down his work and return to his family; when his wife and daughter needed him most, he could make the best choice appropriately.

he zhengjun made the right choice in his own way, whether it was filming "drawing sword" to fulfill his father's dream of becoming a soldier, or not taking any acting jobs for a year to provide his daughter with the best learning environment, and later spending more time with his wife.

it is this persistence and responsibility that ultimately enables him to have the happiest and most fulfilling life in the eyes of others.

when the afterglow of the setting sun fills the courtyard, he zhengjun will hold his wife's hand tightly and stroll in the courtyard, enjoying the irreplaceable quiet time in the world. he knows everything about his wife, and her appearance as a young girl has long been deeply imprinted in his heart.

his wife, fan yu, is also very satisfied with her husband's deep affection for her, so she will never have any regrets.

the road of life is always full of twists and turns, but the key is to move forward in the direction of your ideal. as long as you persist in pursuing your dreams and make efforts, you will definitely have your own happiness.

just like he zhengjun, he finally achieved career success, had a happy family life, and lived the life he most desired.