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"four months of ivf pregnancy, scared of miscarriage": the tragedy of a 41-year-old woman in shanghai is not that simple

2024-09-18

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a dog is always a dog.

but people are not always human.

01

it's simply outrageous to both humans and gods!

ms. yan from shanghai,

i was on the verge of collapse recently because of something.

she is 41 years old.

she is already an elderly mother.

to conceive a child,

she chose to have ivf.

people who have had similar experiences

you should all know,

ivf,

it's a very worrying thing

and painful process.

egg retrieval, transplantation, injections and medication,

surgery after surgery, blood draw after blood draw,

going to the hospital every day,

physical pain

and psychological suffering,

no one can relate.

after 3 years of days that felt like years,

she finally got her wish this year.

got pregnant.

looking at my belly growing bigger day by day,

the whole family was immersed in happiness.

but unexpectedly, an accident

her three years of hard work came to naught.

life fell into a dark abyss.

02

one evening,

when ms. yan went downstairs to the post station to pick up the express delivery,

a large golden retriever without a leash in the community

suddenly he pounced upon her,

she stepped back in fear.

because it happened suddenly,

plus i was frightened at the time,

ms. yan is retreating

i sprained my waist.

she immediately felt pain in her waist.

next,

there was also a sharp pain in the lower abdomen.

ms. yan was terrified.

an ominous thought flashed through my mind:

is the child okay?

to be on the safe side,

ms. yan called the police immediately.

then i went to the hospital.

after the examination, the bad news came:

the child can't be saved!

the news

for ms. yan's family

it was like a bolt from the blue.

she never expected that

her own child died in the womb.

the joy of being a mother

before it landed,

it was cut in half just like that.

she was sad and angry.

ask the dog owner, mr. li, to compensate for the nutrition fee,

the test tube fees amounted to 120,000 yuan.

later, considering that uncle li had been a neighbor for many years,

kind ms. yan

actively reduced the fee to 90,000 yuan.

but i didn't expect that

uncle li, who is usually "amiable",

when faced with conflicts of interest,

he just turned his back on me.

he stated with certainty:

test tube pregnant women like ms. yan,

knowing that it is not easy to get pregnant,

you shouldn't go out easily.

so, regarding this miscarriage,

ms. yan must take responsibility herself.

he even said,

ms. yan's miscarriage,

does not necessarily occur in

the moment the golden retriever appeared,

maybe she had a miscarriage before.

maybe she miscarried afterwards.

it was framed against him.

ms. yan's miscarriage,

with the appearance of the golden retriever,

there is no direct causal relationship.

three years of trying to get pregnant, one day of miscarriage,

the initiator

it's the golden retriever without a leash.

the dog owner should have taken responsibility.

yet he is still here, speaking in a flattering manner,

deny everything.

03

ms. yan really didn't want to argue any more.

he was so angry that he took the dog owner to court.

the shanghai pudong court held that:

the dog owner violated the management regulations.

not keeping their dogs on a leash.

it is an illegal act.

there is subjective fault.

finally, the court ruled

dog owner

the plaintiff, ms. yan, should be compensated for losses of rmb 90,000.

although ms. yan won the case,

but this 90,000 yuan,

there is no way to make up for the pain her family has suffered.

pregnancy is a difficult process.

moreover, after three years of ivf

just conceived a child,

the efforts and expectations behind it

it is far beyond what others can imagine.

more importantly,

now i am 41 years old.

ms. yan, who was severely injured,

are there any conditions?

continue to be pregnant and be a mother?

because the dog owner didn't put the dog on a leash.

such dire consequences for others.

in this regard,

many netizens also expressed indignation:

if you own a dog, you must be responsible.

don't say you are a pet lover.

when something goes wrong, they try to shirk responsibility.

imho,

walking your dog without a leash is just a dog walking a dog!

04

in fact,

in recent years, because of not putting pets on leashes

the tragedy that happened,

there are endless new ones.

and the most infuriating thing is,

it is the attitude of the dog owner after the accident.

in 2018, mr. tang from huzhou, zhejiang

playing outside with my son.

when i walked to the factory which was more than 100 meters away from my home,

suddenly a big dog jumped out from the roadside.

he started biting mr. tang's son.

mr. tang hurriedly drove them away.

the big dog then fled in

in a factory workshop next door.

the child was seriously injured.

the calves and areas around the eyes were also scratched and bleeding.

mr. tang and his family take care of their children

went to the hospital for emergency treatment.

later, i received three rabies vaccines.

but unexpectedly, just 13 days after being bitten,

unfortunately, the child fell ill and died.

the sudden death of a child,

let this family

fallen into a huge haze.

but what is even more infuriating is that

dog owners have been shirking their responsibilities.

mr. tang recalled the day of the incident.

the dog was driven away very familiarly

escaped into the factory gate,

so he went to the factory

contact the dog owner to discuss compensation.

but the dog owner

he didn't even admit that the dog was his.

in desperation,

he had no choice but to call the police.

the dog owner was questioned by the police.

and i'm not afraid at all.

still questioning

do they have evidence?

after careful investigation and search, the police

finally, i found his dog's dog bowl and dog food.

there are also traces of the dog's presence.

the evidence was irrefutable, and he could no longer deny it.

i can only admit that i raised it myself.

however, he admitted,

i don't want to be responsible either.

he is in the police station

after sitting for more than an hour,

without saying a word,

there was no mention of compensation at all.

mr. tang collapsed in despair:

the death of a child,

this was a heavy and huge blow.

it's not easy now

found the person who hurt him.

but that person was trying his best to shirk responsibility and argue.

they were forced to take legal action.

the whole thing,

whether it is mr. tang's family,

still a netizen,

everyone felt extremely aggrieved.

usually no rope is tied,

the dogs are still running around.

when something goes wrong, just be a coward.

i don't know anything about anything.

even if the evidence is thrown in my face,

still playing tricks in every way possible,

refusing to take responsibility.

such a person,

what's the difference with a murderer?

05

there are many more things like this.

the child encountered a vicious dog while playing by the stream.

the dog bit him madly.

eventually, the child loses strength.

drowned in a stream.

the family was grief-stricken.

the dog owner was taken to court.

however,

the dog owner gnashed his teeth and said:

the dog only injured, not killed.

and she said it with certainty:

dogs are beasts.

the child leads the dog.

i also have responsibilities.

seriously, these few short sentences,

it makes people's fists stiff.

it's so shameless!

i usually call my pet "son" or "good boy".

once something goes wrong,

they are called "livestock" and "beasts".

it's simply ridiculous.

over the years,

why are more and more people

getting nasty about some "dog owners"?

because

some dog owners don't care about human affairs.

the world has suffered from them for a long time.

some dog owners are curious and curious.

buy some for your pets.

but i found feeding too troublesome.

the cost is huge.

so they abandoned them irresponsibly.

as a result, pets that originally had homes

become stray cats and dogs,

biting people randomly outside.

a few days ago,

a grandmother from guangxi

he was seriously injured by a dog bite.

the monitoring screen shows,

she was knocked to the ground by the dog.

there were bites all over the body and bleeding.

some sharp-eyed netizens discovered that

there is a collar around the dog's neck.

he must have had an owner.

it was just abandoned.

there are often people posting on the internet.

it is said that many pets are abandoned during the chinese new year.

they are going back to their hometown for the new year.

or going on a trip,

so, throw the pets onto the street.

let them fend for themselves.

starving to death or wandering,

even attacking and hurting people,

it's none of their business.

there are also many people walking their dogs outside.

no matter what the dog does,

causing the entire environment to become dirty and messy;

the dog was locked on the balcony.

go out for a few days by yourself.

as a result, the entire community was in the middle of the night.

awakened by the sound of barking dogs;

and i never put my dog ​​on a leash when i walk it.

because he was afraid that his "darling son" would feel uncomfortable,

but they don't consider other people's feelings.

these people have low quality.

his character is so bad that it is appalling.

that's how they behave.

netizens couldn't help but scold:

a dog is always a dog.

but sometimes people are not necessarily human.

06

dogs are animals.

they don't understand the rules of the human world.

but don’t dog owners understand?

they knew that letting the dog out would be dangerous.

it will hurt others.

but they are just based on an arrogant mentality:

"my dog ​​is very well behaved. it won't bite anyone."

“even if my dog ​​bites someone, it’s okay.

i got the vaccine anyway.”

they feel:

anyway, it's a dog biting a man.

it's not man bites dog.

your own dog will not suffer any loss.

but they didn't think about it.

there will be times when you fail too.

a dog bit a child.

the two families negotiated a compensation of 5,000 yuan.

but the dog owner refused.

i think it's the other party's parents

no guardianship

this resulted in the child being bitten.

so the family that was bitten went to the door to argue.

as a result, he was bitten by a dog again.

the child's father threw the dog to death in anger.

the dog owner cried.

but no matter how angry she was, there was nothing she could do.

because when a dog bites someone, you kill the dog.

this is an emergency hedge.

there is nothing wrong legally.

and they,

not only do we have to endure the pain of losing our pets,

also bear the responsibility for dog bites

the losses incurred,

they can't expect to owe a penny of this money.

in this world,

there are always some people,

they are arrogant and do whatever they want.

even selfish and indifferent

don't take other people's lives and safety seriously.

but people,

once you live your life

heartless dog.

that's their good day.

that's basically the end.

07

2021, anyang city, henan province

a section-level cadre

wang's wife was walking her dog.

bit the old man.

however, they refused to compensate or apologize.

no recognition, no responsibility,

arrogant attitude,

the reporters present were so angry that they burst into tears.

they thought,

this time, the power is willful.

and it can allow them to escape unscathed.

but i didn't expect that

things evolved too quickly.

a "dog disaster"

let "king anyang" be uprooted.

including his 4 units,

all seven cadres were punished.

the owner of huizhou banquet walks his dog without a leash.

after my dog ​​bites someone,

still said stubbornly

your dog is more valuable than a person.

finally i got myself in and operated the sewing machine.

restaurant business also plummeted.

this is really satisfying!

a person's blessing,

it has to do with his practice and moral character.

before you get a dog, learn to be a human being first.

all the "dog troubles",

there is "man-made disaster" behind it.

when people lose their conscience,

that’s not far from being real “dog shit”.