mentor’s answer to 100 questions about growth 33 | what should i do if i haven’t been able to integrate well into the group after entering a new school?
2024-09-12
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the 2024 "nourish the heart and grow" jiangsu province youth mental health education media integration action specially launched the "growth questions and answers by mentors" series of micro-videos, combining the troubles of children and parents in the "growth tree hole" column of the youth aspirations app, and inviting growth mentors to give heartwarming answers. the following are the highlights of this video:
question from a new junior high school student:
what should i do when i enter a new school at the beginning of the semester and there are unfamiliar people and teachers there, and i haven’t been able to integrate well into the group?
instructor’s response:
wang yan
full-time psychology teacher at nanjing no. 3 middle school, leader of nanjing psychology discipline, and advanced individual in teacher ethics in nanjing
national registered psychological counselor
entering a new school and a new class, meeting unfamiliar classmates and teachers, and starting everything from scratch is indeed a new challenge, but it is also an opportunity.
first of all, we can use the "primacy effect" in psychology to leave a good first impression on others. the primacy effect means that the impression formed by people based on the information they first obtain is usually difficult to change, and may even influence the interpretation of new information obtained later. therefore, in the new semester, we can leave a good first impression on others and shape our new interpersonal relationships by dressing appropriately, speaking politely, etc.
secondly, we need to know that our new classmates may be friendlier than we thought. because for most of the new students, they are probably strangers to each other, and even have the ignorance and childishness of childhood, so they will be more friendly and cautious in making new friends. at this time, if we are willing to actively and sincerely show ourselves and gradually find new partners with the same interests and hobbies as ourselves, i believe we can definitely gain new friendships.
it is reported that this media integration action is sponsored by the jiangsu provincial office of spiritual civilization construction and xinhua news media group, and the youth aspirations media integration platform is the event platform. parents of students can scan the qr code above to enter the "growth tree hole" to anonymously confide their troubles or share interesting things around them. the troubles you throw into the "tree hole" may be selected into the "growth questions and answers by mentors" column, and you will get a warm voice reply from a professional mentor!
yangzi evening news/ziniu news reporter he dongting
editing by zhu siqi
proofread by sheng yuanyuan
