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hong kong, a city of decadence and extravagance, has also witnessed countless sad family feuds. among them, wu zhiheng's experience is undoubtedly a lamentable tragedy.

in the past, she was a top student from both oxford and harvard, and a shining model star on the catwalk.

however, all these halos were eclipsed after she married into a wealthy family, and in the end, only a skinny body was left, and she became what people called a "rich man's abandoned wife."

1. marrying into a wealthy family for love, but being tortured

the beginning of the story is very much like the encounter between the prince and cinderella in a fairy tale.

it was at a church event that wu zhiheng met guo yongchun, the prince of hong kong wing on group. the young and handsome guo yongchun fell in love with wu zhiheng at first sight and launched a fierce pursuit offensive.

flowers, luxury cars, romantic dates, all of these made the inexperienced wu zhiheng intoxicated.

soon, she fell into the gentle trap of this rich young man and decided that this was the love she had always dreamed of.

in 2000, at the age of 22, wu zhiheng gave up the admission letter from oxford university and married guo yongchun without hesitation.

on the wedding day, she wore a white wedding dress and had a happy smile on her face, like a princess in a fairy tale. however, this grand wedding was more like the prelude to a canary flying into a rich man's cage.

one was a young talent from a prominent family, and the other was a rising star who combined beauty and talent. their union was once the envy of others.

however, who could have thought that this seemingly fairy-tale marriage would eventually push her into the abyss?

after marriage, wu zhiheng gave up her thriving modeling career and chose to become a full-time housewife, devoting herself to her family.

however, the life of the rich was not as glamorous as she had imagined. instead, it was full of constraints and pressure.

guo yongchun made almost harsh demands on her, especially on her body management. he hoped that his wife would always maintain a perfect figure, and even asked her to lose weight to the point of "skinny beauty".

in order to please her husband, wu zhiheng started a crazy diet, eating only a small amount of vegetables and fruits every day, and even tried various diet pills.

at first, wu zhiheng could still endure this almost self-abuse life. she naively thought that as long as she worked hard enough, she could win the love of her husband and the happiness of her family.

however, she gradually discovered that her husband's love for her was more like a form of control and possession: he restricted her social circle, prevented her from continuing her modeling career, and even interfered with her dressing.

under the constant pressure from kwok wing-chun, wu zhiheng's mental state became worse and worse, and her physical health also deteriorated.

in order to cater to her husband's preferences, wu zhiheng embarked on a nearly crazy weight loss journey. she strictly controlled her diet and even started taking various weight loss pills, hoping to lose weight as fast as lightning in the shortest possible time.

eventually she developed severe anxiety and anorexia, and her weight plummeted to only 44 pounds. she was so thin that she looked like a walking corpse.

although her family and friends advised her to divorce, wu zhiheng always had a fantasy about this marriage. she didn't want to believe that the man she loved with all her heart would eventually abandon her.

however, reality dealt her a heavy blow. in 2006, guo yongchun unilaterally filed for divorce on the grounds of "incompatibility of personality".

2. the miserable life after divorce

the ward was filled with the pungent smell of disinfectant. wu zhiheng lay on the bed, skinny and emaciated. the once glamorous supermodel on the catwalk was now left with only deep eye sockets and lifeless eyes.

if you don't see it with your own eyes, it's hard to imagine that fate can make such a cruel change to a person.

after the divorce, wu zhiheng was exhausted both physically and mentally. the former "winner in life" fell to the point where she had to rely on her parents for support.

and guo yongchun quickly found a new partner and lived a carefree and happy life, as if the marriage had never existed.

wu zhiheng's experience has caused people to think deeply about the marriage of wealthy families. behind money and power, there are often unknown cruel truths. can women really get equality and respect in marriage?

from a "rising star" to a "discarded wife of a wealthy family", wu zhiheng's experience is undoubtedly a cause for regret. she gave up herself for love, but ended up with scars all over her body.

this marriage, like a gorgeous cage, drained away all her vitality and dreams.

today, wu zhiheng's story has become a thing of the past. but her experience has sounded a warning to countless women. in the pursuit of love and marriage, do not lose yourself, and do not sacrifice your health and dignity to please others.

true happiness should be based on mutual respect and independence.

looking back at wu zhiheng's life trajectory, it is not difficult to find that she actually has enviable capital. superior family background, outstanding appearance and talent, and admirable knowledge are all the steps to her success and happiness.

however, fate played a cruel joke on her.

perhaps, the seeds of tragedy were sown the moment wu zhiheng chose to marry into a wealthy family. she gave up herself for love and placed all her hopes in her life on her husband, but in the end, she got nothing.

in a materialistic society, tragedies like wu zhiheng's may happen every day. it reminds us that no matter when and where, we should not forget to improve ourselves and maintain the ability to think independently.

only by taking control of your own destiny can you walk more calmly and confidently on the road of life.

however, with the progress of the times and the development of society, more and more women have begun to realize that their lives should not be bound by marriage and family, and they can also have their own careers and dreams.

while pursuing love and marriage, women should pay more attention to their own growth and development and strive to enhance their own value. only in this way can they have a stronger heart and more determined steps when facing the ups and downs of life.

"from 'canary' to 'caged bird'", wu zhiheng's story is a microcosm of an era, reflecting the difficulties and challenges faced by women in marriage and life during the social transition period.

and the final answer to this story may only be found by each of us.