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don't get too involved.

don't just sit there and do nothing.

01

every year at the beginning of the school year,

it's always lively.

there is endless news.

in this pile of news,

this parent in yulin, guangxi,

the noise caused a great disturbance.

it quickly became the number one trending search.

in just one day,

"yulin parents scold everyone they meet in wechat group"

the topic has been read tens of millions of times.

02

those who "cause trouble" in the group

she is the mother of a classmate named liu moumin.

the first day of school is over.

she kept complaining in the group.

first, let me talk about my children

the new book i received was broken and torn.

books in transit

a little bit damaged

it's all normal, actually.

these two books are not bad at all.

to the point where it cannot be used,

just in appearance

just a few minor flaws.

normal people generally don’t care.

but this parent

but it started to stir up trouble.

she said in the group:

thanks to the two class teachers for their care.

first day of school

this is how we take care of our children.

post two crappy books.

then, with a faint threatening tone,

said he would explain it on the official account.

the teacher takes such good care of her children.

when the teacher saw this,

explain to the parent immediately.

indicates that the textbooks are provided by parents

randomly distributed,

it was pure coincidence that the child received a damaged one.

the parent then stated:

that's okay.

but is it really okay?

no.

03

the new book incident is just an appetizer.

a few minutes later,

the parent continued to output,

he scolded another parent who took the photo.

if you say you don't have time to shoot,

just take a group photo.

i have to take another personal photo.

i only took photos of about 10 people.

the implication is

there are no individual photos of my own children.

parents who were scared to take photos

i quickly came out to explain that i had taken all the photos.

just haven't had time to upload it yet.

however, this does not alleviate

liu moumin’s mother’s anger,

she directly criticized the parent who took the photo in the group:

take your own children

photographed like a beggar.

the parents who came to take photos were just helping out.

they are not anyone's exclusive photographers.

not to mention,

the temperature was high on the first day of school.

the child was sweating all over after a day of making a fuss.

how can it look good?

this parent's mentality,

it is to completely

as the queen,

my son is the prince,

everyone has to serve them.

these issues have been spit out.

she increased her firepower again

aimed at the head teacher.

after school, she

not picking up the kids on time,

the teacher called her but she didn't answer.

so the teacher hit me.

the phone number of the child's grandfather,

finally, the child's grandfather

go to the school and pick up the child.

however, after returning home,

the child's grandfather scolded her.

normal people encounter this kind of thing

you must reflect on yourself first.

then apologize to the teacher, right?

however, liu moumin's mother

the brain circuit is really not that of an ordinary person

imagine.

she took out her anger at being scolded

i was furious at the teacher.

she felt that it was the teacher who caused her to be scolded.

at once:??

the one scolding you is your child's grandfather.

if you have the guts, get mad at him.

get angry at the teacher

what kind of problem is this?

this fire was inexplicable.

the teacher didn't know how to deal with it.

just keep silent.

however, she did not get a reply from the teacher.

a new round of outbursts began.

04

because a few days ago

she called to inquire about evening tutoring.

the head teacher didn't explain it clearly.

so i called

to another teacher,

as a result, this action

it angered her,

it made her feel very uncomfortable.

she asked repeatedly:

as a class teacher, you know nothing about anything.

ask more questions

just give the call to another teacher.

also asked me if i had any questions?

if i have no doubts

what do i want to see you for?

after this series of outputs,

i don’t know if the head teacher doesn’t want to cause trouble.

or because i really don't want to bother with it,

no sound was made.

but some parents in the group couldn't stand it anymore.

someone kindly suggested

she wants to exchange books with her child.

finally, she replied:

does this matter have anything to do with you?

some people came out to defend the teacher.

said a few words on behalf of the teacher.

unexpectedly,

these are the few words of explanation.

stirred up a hornet's nest.

she's like a bitch in the group

i scold whoever i catch.

it has the momentum of a "debate with a group of scholars".

some people can't stand it.

send her a private message,

i want to reason with her.

but i didn't expect that

brought her into the group

a barrage of insults.

those dirty words,

seriously,

it makes one's scalp tingle.

the genitals are always mentioned in every sentence.

the mouth stinks like shit.

many people may spend their entire lives

i've never seen such dirty words.

these obscene words

the whole network was shocked instantly.

it quickly became a hot search.

soon, liu moumin's mother

became the focus figure,

and insiders in the comment section also revealed:

as early as kindergarten,

this parent forced the teacher to resign overnight.

05

during teachers' day

seeing such news,

any teacher would feel sad and angry.

after reading it, i was left with a lot of questions:

why not just

bring the prince home directly.

do you hire a private tutor for every class?

the school temple is too small.

your son is studying here.

it's really a concession!

i have to say,

there are such parents,

it's really terrifying.

they are high above.

he wished everyone would obey him.

once something goes wrong, he goes crazy.

seeing that the child is a little different from others

i was greatly stimulated.

scold the teacher, scolded other parents,

barking like crazy.

in the long run,

the teacher dared not discipline the children.

classmates don't want to get close to the child.

other parents, in order to avoid trouble,

i will warn my children

don't get involved with their family.

in the end, the real victims are

still a child.

06

in fact,

since the establishment of the "parents group"

after this thing came out,

weird people and things.

they keep emerging.

once they find their children

no special care

the angry mother of "zi han"

they are everywhere.

last december,

a picture went viral online.

a parent because of his child

at school

a mosquito bite

he began to blame the teacher.

“is this how kindergartens look after children?”

even questioned the teacher

"why not bite others".

in january this year, a parent in shandong

because the class photos uploaded by the teacher

i didn't take a picture of my son.

so he said the teacher was a complete jerk.

there are even more outrageous parents.

i saw the photo uploaded by the teacher.

no children of my own,

i hurriedly asked

why don't teachers take photos of children?

completely forgotten

the fact that the child is taking leave.

this is really just looking for trouble.

finding faults with the teacher in various ways.

some people also

the child goes to school for a day.

i lost 0.5 kg.

i called the teacher and asked:

give her the good ones.

i lost weight in just one day!

some parents even asked teachers to

give your child 100 ml of 40-degree warm water every day.

take a photo every time you drink water.

that's all.

she even asked the teacher

alone with her child

sleep in a small single room,

the reason is

afraid that others would disturb her child’s sleep!

these conversations are truly breathtaking.

is your child a prince or princess?

need such careful care?

is the teacher the child’s babysitter?

need to be meticulous

taking care of them,

do precision feeding?

07

some parents don't seem to understand

positioning of teachers and children.

some time ago,

an entry called "yiyang mom"

it became a hot topic.

the cause is that the teacher in school

the child is doing well.

i rewarded the child with a pack of oreo cookies.

the result was an angry rebuke from the parents:

why give him this?

after he ate the cookies and went back

drink a big glass of hot water!

she was aggressive.

said that he never gave his children

eat this junk food.

he even threatened the teacher secretly:

he just drank another large glass of water.

if this continues,

then i need to test his blood sugar.

you'd better be mentally prepared.

seriously,

if i were that teacher,

i would also be so angry that i would tremble.

it's obviously a gift for children.

but parents call it junk food.

even threatened

if anything goes wrong, the teacher will be held fully responsible.

when you meet such parents,

who dares to bring up enthusiasm?

to treat their children?

seriously,

if i hadn't seen it with my own eyes,

i can't imagine it at all

in this world

there are so many terrible parents.

their exquisite selfishness,

their weirdness and absurdity,

revealing all the time

a feeling of suffocation came over me.

they seemed to be possessed by a demon.

always look at everything with suspicion.

afraid that others would persecute their children,

questioning others' kindness

there is an ulterior motive.

they strictly control

children's food, clothing, shelter and transportation,

i wish i could get a glass cover

isolate the children.

through these high-pressure measures,

let the children become "stay away from strangers",

become a giant baby who is at a loss as to what to do.

08

recently there is a hot search term:

"helicopter parents".

i mean, like a helicopter.

hovering over the child,

every detail was arranged extremely carefully.

they try to take complete control

the growth and development of children,

if you find your child in any trouble,

always stand up,

crazy bombing of those

someone who causes "trouble" to children.

they have everything under control.

children who grow up in this kind of family atmosphere,

what will it look like?

netizen "lieqisheng"

speaking of his own experience:

since he was a child, his mother has been strict with him.

peeping at his diary, looking through his locker

these are the most basic operations.

obviously, at that time

he is already a boy of fifteen or sixteen.

but when you go out with friends, you have to follow them.

he always said that he was afraid of learning bad things from others.

what to wear, what to eat,

all with her permission.

she thinks that things that don’t look good should not be worn.

unnutritious and unhealthy things

it is absolutely not to be eaten.

now he has

he is an adult in his 30s.

but when i go out, i will still be questioned.

choosing a love partner is beyond your control.

if she doesn't like something, she will force them to break up.

growing up in such an environment,

finally one day it broke out.

moved out from my parents' home.

start a life of revenge.

i ate junk food for half a month.

i quit my job,

stay at home and play games

the fight lasted until darkness fell.

he is self-conscious and sensitive.

i don't want to contact anyone.

emotional connection between people

very distrustful,

the whole person is depressed and sad,

feeling that life is meaningless.

under the strong control of her mother,

he was protected as a

a lifeless giant baby.

09

how sad!

parents in the name of love,

doing things that control your child's life.

they want to

create a perfect life,

but i never thought,

this actually deprives

children have the right to choose their own life.

everything you want,

this may not be what the child wants.

how to raise children to adulthood

there is a saying:

when you are a child

from the moment he drew his sword and mounted his horse,

he became a victim.

your message to them is:

you can't, you're not strong enough.

i need to intervene and solve it for you.

but we provide all-round protection.

everything around the child

they all shouted for war and killing.

definitely not a good thing.

children also need to integrate into society.

if they are protected in a vacuum enclosure,

then they lose their immunity.

the most mature signs of being a parent are:

learn to control your desire for control.

keep boundaries between you and your children.

don't get too involved.

but we will not stand idly by.

in this way,

children can be in every moment of life,

have more options.