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Zhang Fengyi has only one son in his life, Zhang Boyu, born to his ex-wife. He is the director and starring actor of Tencent's hit drama "Please, Her in My Body".

Zhang Boyu, who only loves his father in his life, has always wanted to get the support and preference of his biological father.

But the result is always humiliation, rejection and hurt, a basin of cold water poured over him, chilling him completely.

"You look like this, it's not suitable for you to be an actor",

"Don't call me anymore, I don't have time",

"It's just a wedding, just one table will do, no need to set up 27 tables."

Zhang Fengyi can come up with answers like these with ease.

His rejection-style answers and repressive education made Zhang Boyu spend his entire life trying to heal his childhood.

But Zhang Fengyi feels that he has given his son a good education and that his son’s excellence is all due to his repressive education.

Zhang Fengyi is 68 years old and still unaware of his own shortcomings. If he doesn’t treat his own son better, what will he do with his retirement?

01

Zhang Fengyi and Lv Liping met because of the movie "Dragon Year Police Officers".

At this time, Zhang Fengyi was a fledgling and unknown little actor, while Lv Liping was already a little famous.

Lv Liping comes from a wealthy family and has been spoiled like a little princess since childhood.

He quickly became popular after his debut. Although he is not good-looking, he is quite talented.

After the two met, Lv Liping fell in love with Zhang Fengyi at first sight, threw herself into his arms and expressed her deep love for him.

Zhang Fengyi disagreed and did not love Lu at all, but he never rejected Lu.

As for Lv Liping, Zhang Fengyi valued her family background, fame and resources more. Even though he didn't love her, he still fell in love with her, married her and had children with her.

Zhang Fengyi was greedy for vanity and fame, and enjoyed all the opportunities introduced to him by Lü Liping.

After the two got married, Zhang Fengyi used all of his wife's resources to film movies like crazy, but rarely went home.

Lv Liping, who thought she had found true love, retreated to the second line to take care of the elderly and provide a stable rear base for Zhang Fengyi.

But Zhang Fengyi's true nature was revealed, and he often made excuses to his wife, such as "I'm busy with work, I don't have time, I have to film," etc.

Not wanting to go home actually means I don’t love you and I hate you.

The marriage, which was in name only, came to an end in just three years.

By the time of the divorce, Zhang Fengyi had become somewhat famous and no longer needed Lv Liping's protection, and he even looked down on the son he had with Lv Liping.

Zhang Fengyi was not sad at all about leaving Lv Liping and the children, and returned to work eagerly.

In just two years, she fell in love with her new love, Huo Fan, a fan 20 years younger than her.

The two got married less than a year after they got together.

Zhang Fengyi suddenly became a different person. He was so busy that he was always tied to his wife. He would eat, go shopping and go out with her. He always had time for her.

This is the best proof of love and not love. Huo Fan is more beautiful and younger than his ex-wife, and he is also more gentle and considerate than his ex-wife.

Zhang Fengyi was extremely satisfied and declared that he had found true love.

Zhang Fengyi, who fell in true love, completely forgot about his own son and never took the initiative to contact Zhang Boyu again.

02

Young Zhang Boyu has never received fatherly love. Since his parents divorced, his father disappeared from this world.

He never took the initiative to care about himself, nor did he care whether he was bullied.

When Zhang Boyu envied his peers who had their fathers by their side, he would take the initiative to call his father.

But he hung up the phone quickly, with tears in his eyes every time, because his father always said: "Dad is very busy and has no time to accompany you."

Young Zhang Boyu felt that maybe he was not good enough, so his father always rejected him.

He tried his best and begged for his father's care, but his father never met his need for fatherly love.

Even though his mother remarried and he had a stepfather, Zhang Boyu still valued his biological father, Zhang Fengyi, the most.

Perhaps it was God's pity on the poor Zhang Boyu that Lv Liping met her true love, Sun Haiying, in her third marriage.

The two people met on a drama, had the same hobbies, and their hearts naturally came together.

Sun Haiying loves Zhang Boyu very much and treats him as his own son.

I will accompany him when he needs support, and point him in the direction when he is confused.

Influenced by his surroundings, Zhang Boyu, who was born into a performing arts family, also wanted to become an actor.

The biological father's reaction was brilliant: "You don't look like an actor."

Zhang Fengyi's words blocked his son's dream, but fortunately, with the understanding and support of his mother and stepfather, Zhang Boyu did not give up.

When Zhang Boyu was performing in a stage play at the Central Academy of Drama, he excitedly told Zhang Fengyi:

"I'm going to be in a stage play at school, and I'll be the male lead. Dad, will you come and watch me perform?"

Zhang Fengyi said sarcastically,"You play the leading male role. Is this play still watchable?"

The counter-question and rebuke left Zhang Boyu speechless.

After growing up, Zhang Boyu may no longer care so much about Zhang Fengyi's opinion.

After receiving an invitation from the "Travel with Parents" program crew, he took his mother and stepfather to participate in the recording.

Seeing this scene, Zhang Fengyi was jealous and rebuked Zhang Boyu on the phone:

"He's only raised you for a few days, and you've already forgotten who your biological father is?"

It is said that the grace of giving birth is not as great as the grace of raising a child. Zhang Boyu did not become the second Batu, thanks to his stepfather’s loyalty and Zhang Fengyi’s selfless kindness.

Yes, the biological father is so domineering. He doesn’t care about his son, but wants him to be grateful to himself. It’s really ridiculous.

03

Zhang Boyu, who has found his life's destiny, still wants his biological father to attend his wedding because of his deep love for him.

Before the wedding, he invited Zhang Fengyi to attend the wedding.

As an ordinary father, when he learns that his son is getting married, he will show off everywhere.

Zhang Fengyi, with a serious face, refused even more forcefully:"One table is enough for your wedding. 27 tables is too extravagant. I won't go."

Perhaps it was his father’s refusal, or perhaps it was his father’s lack of love, that made Zhang Boyu, who should have been smiling, feel distressed and helpless.

His wedding was also messed up by his biological father, and his heart was already broken into pieces.

There is really no such thing as a quick rise without gain.

When interviewing Zhang Fengyi afterwards, he said his son was extravagant and that he was embarrassed to see his ex-wife and his current wife.

On the one hand, he said that he loved his son deeply, but on the other hand, he said that he felt uncomfortable because they had no contact on a regular basis.

Yes, he didn't want to go and he could think of ten thousand reasons.

A few confusing words also reveal the relationship between him and his son: they are like strangers, and he only has the grace of giving birth to him.

In the following years, Zhang Fengyi changed his nature and took the initiative to care about his son.

Many netizens commented that perhaps it is because he has reached the age where he needs to raise a child to take care of him in his old age.

It's just as hypocritical as before, when he needed his ex-wife to pave the way for him.

Zhang Fengyi began to tell the media that he loved his son very much and said that Huo Fan also treated Zhang Boyu as his own son.

Once these words were spoken, it seemed as if he was trying to cover up his guilt.

He also expressed the hope that his son would put aside the past and return to him.

This regret came too late. She left the child after hurting him all over, and then used the grace of giving birth to morally blackmail her son.

Such inappropriate love can hurt children at every moment.

Some netizens even jokingly said that Li Chengru, Zhang Fengyi and Yingda should become sworn brothers.

Father’s love is like a mountain, solid and reliable.

But Zhang Fengyi's love was like a landslide. He wished he could crush the child under the Five Finger Mountain before he would stop.

But the child still loved him deeply as always, and grew up while licking his wounds.

The child finally recovered, and the father came back to ask for repayment. Is he asking his child to repay the hurt he had endured for more than 30 years?

If you don’t love someone, please stay away. If you love someone, please love him deeply. As a parent, if you decide to have a child, you must be responsible for his life, give him love, and let him grow up healthily.

Life is not easy, please be a loving parent.