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Shen Lijun was sitting outside the window on the 28th floor. She was once known as "the most beautiful woman in Shanghai" and the "dream lover" of countless men. Now she was disheartened and ready to die in despair.

Shen Lijun

This is her eighth year of marriage into a wealthy family. She thought the abundant material resources would bring her a happy life.

But in fact, when she jumped off the building in despair, her so-called "rich husband" was accompanying his lover to choose a wedding dress, and her two hungry children were left unattended.

What's even more ridiculous is that after her death, no one from her husband's family came to her for justice. Instead, her husband's lover took over everything she had, including her husband, children, and property...

She was originally a popular actress, but she committed suicide by jumping off a building for love. Many netizens felt sorry for her misfortune and angry at her for not fighting back.

Although it is said that once you enter a wealthy family, it is like entering a deep sea, but after all, she has a career and beauty, and she is only 34 years old;

You can reach the pinnacle of life by your own means, so why end your life by jumping off a building?

It was not until her "ten thousand word suicide note" was made public that netizens discovered that behind Shen Lijun's glory of marrying into a wealthy family, there were so many unknown sad tragedies!

Before her wedding, Shen Lijun thought that marrying into a wealthy family was very romantic.

Suddenly, a rich, handsome and domineering president broke into her originally monotonous and boring life, and she fell in love with him at first sight without saying a word.

Then the two of them lived happily in the crystal castle like the princess and prince in the story, no longer bothering about any trivial matters...

At that time, as the first generation of Internet celebrity in Shanghai, she was beautiful and was the object of pursuit of many wealthy children in Shanghai. She was given the title of "Shanghai's No. 1 Beauty".

Later, she signed a contract with a company and co-starred with big stars such as Cecilia Cheung, Hu Ge, Bibi Zhou, Guo Degang and other big stars in the movie "The 601st Call", collaborated with Louis Koo in "All's Well, Ends Well 2009", and collaborated with Wallace Huo in the movie "The Transformation Contract".

She was just 26 years old that year and had already become Hong Kong's most sought-after "leader of the jade girls". She was the talk of the town and completely opened up the entertainment industry.

In that "non-mainstream" era, many boys and girls' social media profile pictures were her photos.

She accompanied the youth of a generation. At the beginning of the millennium, Shen Lijun's pretty and pure image on the large-screen display machines in Internet cafes was the memory of the era for many people.

At the most glorious age and with such abundant resources, Shen Lijun has established a firm foothold in the entertainment industry, with an annual income of nearly one million yuan. Anyone can see that she has a bright future.

But in the second year after becoming famous, Shen Lijun met her love, and from then on she could not stop. She voluntarily took off the dazzling armor of a female star, put on red clothes, got married and had children, and the trajectory of her destiny completely changed.

Shen Lijun gave up her thriving career and chose to become a housewife. Her friends all advised her to reconsider.

But this simple and kind-hearted love-brained man was determined to get married.

She felt that her husband was the man sent by God, and she would definitely live a happy life with him.

Shen Lijun’s husband, Wu Xinhuan (some say Wu Kaixin), is a second-generation rich man from Shanghai. He owns a large family business and has very strong financial resources.

Wu Xinhuan is not only rich but also humorous. After falling in love with Shen Lijun at first sight at a wedding, he began to pursue her vigorously.

Shen Lijun was a very well-behaved girl when she was young, and when she grew up she was busy with work. She had never felt the feeling of being courted before, and she was very moved for a moment.

In addition, Wu Xinhuan was very good at coaxing people and was good at understanding women's minds. He bombarded them with coffee, flowers, and luxury goods, and soon the two of them got together.

It took only eight months from the time they met and started dating to the time they got married.

Perhaps the beauty of love was too deceptive, so just after getting married, Shen Lijun decided to retire for love and concentrate on taking care of her husband and children at home.

She almost gambled her brilliant career in the second half of her life on having a happy marriage. This girl, who was spoiled by her parents since childhood, believed that the whole world should be bathed in sunshine, that sincerity could be exchanged for sincerity, and that expectation could bring a bright future.

However, before she died, Shen Lijun lamented in her suicide note, "In those short eight months, we did show our best sides to each other...but I forgot the shadow behind the sunshine."

Wu Xinhuan's family is rich and powerful, which puts a lot of pressure on Shen Lijun to have children. As soon as she got married, her mother-in-law started urging her to have a baby.

Her mother-in-law originally looked down on her, thinking that she had no background and was just a "playgirl". She only urged her to give birth to a baby quickly and showed no concern for her daughter-in-law at all.

Wu Xinhuan's attitude also underwent a drastic change after marriage.

He no longer treated Shen Lijun kindly, but only treated her as a reproductive machine.

Because he got married, the nanny retired from the front line, and Shen Lijun took care of her husband's food, clothing, housing and transportation. However, she was still despised for "doing nothing" and "not even being able to give birth to a child", which caused great mental pressure on her.

In fact, in order to keep the baby, Shen Lijun took more than 200 injections and took more medicine than food.

Unfortunately, Wu Xinhuan's sperm quality was poor. She became pregnant twice, but both times she failed to keep the pregnancy due to threatened miscarriage, and her body became weaker and weaker.

In order to get pregnant, she endured all the hardships she had never experienced in her previous life.

She finally made it through the first three months of her third pregnancy and entered a stable period, but because of severe morning sickness, she spent almost all of her time in bed from pregnancy to delivery.

The pregnancy process turned the young and beautiful female star into a swollen and weak expectant mother.

Seeing his once pretty wife now pregnant and ugly, Wu Xinhuan's feelings for Shen Lijun were completely worn out.

He originally just wanted the novelty of it. During Shen Lijun's pregnancy, he cheated on her more than once and often dated some young and beautiful girls.

Even at the end of her suicide note, Shen Lijun wrote,

“Whether a man loves you or not can only be known after you get sick, and whether he is a human or a dog can only be known after you give birth to a child.”

After finally giving birth, Shen Lijun wanted to take care of the child together with her husband but was rejected. Her husband said that taking care of the child was the woman's responsibility.

My mother-in-law felt that it would be better for the child to be raised by his biological mother, and she never took care of him for even a moment.

Shen Lijun, who had just given birth, had to do it herself.

Every one or two hours she had to feed the baby and change the dressing. Lochia flowed down her thighs onto the bed sheets. The baby cried all night long. Her husband was out having a good time, drinking and partying, and the mother-in-law stayed at home and didn't care.

Over time, Shen Lijun suffered from postpartum depression and a lot of postpartum diseases.

Wu Xinhuan didn't go home more and more often, and he could find different reasons every day. Even after the child was one month old, he still didn't want to sleep in the same bed with his wife.

Shen Lijun stayed up late waiting for him to come back, wanting to talk to him a few more times, but her husband always made the excuse of going out for a drink with clients and came back in the early hours of the morning, and he always smelled of perfume and makeup.

This huge sense of gap almost broke Shen Lijun.

She didn't understand where her husband who loved her so much had gone? How did he change completely after getting married? Could she ever get the love she wanted back?

Of course I can't come back.

She soon discovered the third party’s Weibo because the other party was too blatant and kept provoking her.

When Shen Lijun shared beautiful photos on Weibo, a third party came over and said something sarcastic;

She also told Shen Lijun that her husband was going to buy her a car and accompany her back to her hometown in Anhui, and even threatened that she would have everything Shen Lijun had.

Only then did Shen Lijun realize that her husband had been involved with the other woman for a long time, and the mistress even met Wu Xinhuan because of their wedding!

The third party even registered a small account, where she either posted sweet photos to embarrass Shen Lijun or showed off the gifts Wu Xinhuan bought for her.

The husband bought his mistress a bag worth tens of thousands of dollars and even gave her a luxury car as a gift, but he thought it was a waste of money for Shen Lijun to buy a pair of shoes worth a few hundred dollars for the children.

She wanted to divorce, but she couldn't bear to do it when faced with her husband's attempts to keep her.

Wu Xinhuan sincerely took her hand and admitted his mistake, promising that there would not be a next time. She looked at her sensible son and her bulging belly, and still chose to forgive.

Even for the sake of her two children, she still wanted to live a good life, hoping that her husband would change his mind and start over.

Injections, taking medicine, giving birth to children, taking care of the family's daily life, the days began to repeat themselves again.

Sometimes when the children are asleep, Shen Lijun would wonder where she is now? What is she doing? Why didn't she choose to continue working? What would happen if she hadn't gotten married?

She wanted to divorce countless times, but her mother-in-law always blocked her with "the child is still young" and "if you don't think about yourself, you have to think about the child";

He even calmly advised her that it was normal for a man to find a few friends outside and advised her to be magnanimous.

Long-term mental repression caused Shen Lijun to suffer from severe depression; and when her youngest daughter was just beginning to understand things, she was diagnosed with advanced cervical cancer.

The illness put an end to everything.

After learning that she was seriously ill, Wu Xinhuan didn't care. He had already developed a relationship with the third party to the point where they looked at wedding dresses and bought gifts together. He only said, "It doesn't matter if you die. There are plenty of people to take care of the children."

Shen Lijun calmly accepted the reality of her impending death and even considered taking her two children with her.——

She could not accept a third party as the stepmother of her children, and she also did not believe that Wu Xinhuan would treat the two children well.

In the end, she was reluctant to take her child away, so Shen Lijun left a suicide note and resolutely left this family that left her no regrets.

Perhaps for her, being able to "free" herself is the best ending.

She jumped from the 28th floor and ended her life, but because her child was still young when she left, a third party soon broke into the house.

Is it really worth it?

Her death is heartbreaking, but after learning from Shen Lijun's experience, many people have also recognized the true inside story of wealthy marriages. I believe that in the future, women will be able to avoid such disasters and live a happier life.