2024-08-19
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Children's bad behavior habits are closely related to parents' daily parenting methods. It is difficult to completely solve them in just a few months. Inappropriate methods will be counterproductive. Parents should help their children according to their needs and confusions. They cannot expect any short-term special training to solve problems on their behalf.
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Recently, the Sichuan Xinbashu Special Training Camp School staff pretended to be police officers and beat students, which aroused heated discussions among netizens."A special training school in Chengdu was exposed for beating students and pretending to be police officers" was on the hot listOn the 16th, officials from Chengdu's Xindu District responded that the district's police, education bureau and other departments have intervened in the investigation. Kandan Observation found that it was not the first time that "special training schools were exposed to abuse and beating students".Why do some parents still take the risk of sending their children to special training schools? How should we discipline "problem children"?
Many students recounted their experiences at the New Bashu Special Training Camp: eating swill buns, being beaten and bullied
The students who spoke about this are all over 14 years old.Sent to this school for reasons such as dislike of studying, disobedience, and quarrels with parents., have now left school.
Xiaojia (pseudonym), 17 years old this year, was one of the first students to be sent to the school. In November last year, he was sent here by his parents because of autism and aversion to school. When he got off the bus, he saw two instructors in camouflage uniforms and a teaching building full of iron fences. "I was taken in by the instructors, and my cell phone and hard objects were confiscated. Then I was taken to the psychological counseling room on the second floor. They took a video and asked me to say that I was wrong, and then sent it to my parents." Xiaojia recalled that he wanted to grab the phone at that time but was beaten by the instructor.
Student Xiao Yi (pseudonym) said that in March this year, a student was beaten for not folding his quilt properly.The instructor dragged me to the playground to run exercisesStudent Xiao Bing (pseudonym) said that he had personally seen aThe instructor beat a student15-year-old student Xiao Ding (pseudonym) said that one day heBecause he did not finish his breakfast within the stipulated time, the coach threw the remaining half of his steamed bun into the sewage.(Gutter water is also called swill, hereinafter referred to as swill)bucket and forced him to eat it."I had to eat, otherwise he would make me crawl around the playground with the bun in my mouth." Another 14-year-old girl alsoHe was forced to eat steamed buns made from slop because he did not finish his breakfast within 5 minutes."The swill is the leftover food they eat.There are also cigarette butts thrown by the instructor。”
Xiaojia said that in addition to personal insults and beatings, the school also had "If one person makes a mistake, everyone will be punished."Collective punishment method. If one person makes a mistake, the whole class or even the people who train together will be punished.Some bullying occurred,Some students who were implicated would beat the offenders in the dormitory, spit on them, order them to clean the room, etc.。
The trainee said that the scar was caused by the instructor dragging him on the ground during corporal punishment (Photo provided by the interviewee)
On the 16th, a reporter came to the school and saw that some parents had taken their children out, while there were still students receiving training in the school.Principal Luo Moujuan refused to be interviewed,andIt was denied that any staff member pretended to be a police officer and took children from home to school.The reporter noticed that in May this year,The school was fined 38,000 yuan because its fire protection facilities did not meet the standards.
The so-called youth "training camps" and "special training camps" are under the banner of correcting children's rebelliousness, quitting Internet addiction, curing school aversion and other problems. They adopt completely closed management, high-intensity physical training and even extreme means such as corporal punishment, insults, and beatings, claiming that they can correct children's bad behavior in a short period of time. This practice not onlyIt cannot fundamentally solve the problem, but may lead to more deep-seated social problems and legal disputes, seriously infringing on the legitimate rights and interests and physical and mental health of young people.。
This is not the first time such an incident has happened!
Faced with their children's education problems, some helpless parents hope to achieve their children's rapid growth and transformation through "extraordinary means" from a third party. Commercial organizations cater to this psychological demand.Various market chaos have emerged, which confuse the public and even touch the legal boundaries under the banner of schools and education.Kandan Observation found thatThere have been many incidents in the past where "special training schools were exposed to abuse and beating of students."
[Henan Yashengsi Quality Education Base beats and physically punishes students who want to quit Internet addiction]
At the beginning of 2023, multiple platforms exposed the Henan Province Yashengsi Quality Education Base located in Zhongmu, ZhengzhouUnder the banner of quality education and influencing children, students are beaten and physically punished to help them quit their internet addiction.It is said online that this educational base existsSlapping, pepper spraying, running with tires on your backAnd other corporal punishment issues.
On January 28, 2023, Zhongmu County responded to the incident and launched a joint investigation into the online reports of Yashengsi Company. The full text is as follows↓
The Qichacha APP shows that the operating status of Henan Yashengsi Education Technology Co., Ltd. was changed from existing toLogout.at present,The students and relevant personnel of the base have been cleared out, and multiple local departments have intervened in the investigation.
[The instructor of the "Creation Magic Training" in Nanning, Guangxi repeatedly pushed the boy's head into the water]
In June 2024, an instructor at the "Creation Demon Training" in Nanning, Guangxi, carried a child's clothes.Repeatedly push the child's head into the water and then lift it outThe video of the training was circulated on the Internet. In response, the staff of the training institution responded that the video was taken during the training last year. There was a live broadcast at that time, and parents would watch it together. The training content was to help children make psychological breakthroughs. The water in the venue was very shallow and it would be carried out under safe conditions.
For such unscientific, non-compliant and illegal training institutions, the government and industry regulatory authorities must strictly review their qualifications and regulate their behavior.Ensure that youth training is carried out under the premise of ensuring safety and respecting personality。
Why do parents still send their children to these schools?
In this regard, some netizens said,Similar problems have been exposed many times, why do parents still send their children to these schools?
Some netizens said,When a child is rebellious, the best thing to do is to keep the child by your side and educate him/her patiently!
There are also netizensWe urge parents to understand this well and be extremely cautious!
Some netizens said,A relative wanted to send his child to a similar school, but after seeing the news, he finally decided not to go.
Another netizen saidIt’s hard to put it into words, everyone has their own difficulties!
In fact,Children's bad behavior habits are closely related to parents' daily discipline methods., rebelliousness, Internet addiction, aversion to learning and other problems are formed over a long period of time.It is difficult to completely resolve the problem in just a few months, and improper methods may even backfire.As a parent, the most important thing is to take responsibility, pay more attention to your children and spend more time with them.Provide help based on their needs and confusion. Do not expect any short-term special training to solve problems on behalf of parents.。
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Source: China National Radio, upstream news, Red Star News, netizens' comments, etc.