Watch the “spicy” chat丨Do you create a persona for yourself?
2024-08-14
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In our daily social life, we often hear about someone's personality, or someone else's personality collapse. After witnessing so many situations related to personality, we can't help but think about how we treat our personality in social situations. Are you a person who creates a personality for yourself?
Let's first talk about what a persona is. Simply put, a persona is a specific image that you want to show to others. For example, when we mention the comedy star Shen Teng, everyone thinks of his humorous and funny appearance, which is his persona. It can be seen that a persona is like a label, straightforward and clear at a glance.
Nowadays, many Internet bloggers will set up a persona to quickly and easily find content audiences and attract traffic. However, there are also many bloggers who are blinded by greed and engage in fraud in order to reap the benefits of the persona, attract fans and sell goods. The ongoing special campaign "Clear and Bright: Rectification of False and Vulgar Chaos in the Field of Online Live Broadcasting" has included "fabricating false scenes and personas, and unscrupulous marketing" in the scope of key rectification. For the public, this is undoubtedly a wake-up call: look at the persona rationally and don't get too involved in the drama.
Of course, creating a persona is not exclusive to public figures. Many young people avoid and resolve some difficult moments in the workplace and life by labeling themselves. When you are in a car with your boss and don't know what to talk about, you will fall asleep in the car with the "car sickness persona"; when you don't want to drink at a dinner party, you can easily refuse the drink with the "alcohol allergy"; when a friend asks you to borrow money, you can use the "mama's boy persona" of a strict family to refuse decently...
For ordinary people like us, it is most important to establish a personality that is appropriate. Sometimes, in order to cater to certain trends or the expectations of others, we establish a personality that is completely inconsistent with our own personality. In this way, we often need to disguise ourselves and stay vigilant at all times, for fear of revealing our true self. Over time, we will accumulate tremendous pressure in our hearts and may even lose ourselves. Therefore, the personality we establish should be based on our true personality and characteristics. Only in this way can we be long-lasting and comfortable.
So in your daily social life, do you have your own unique persona? Welcome to chat.
