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girls, always treat yourself like a treasure.

01

the wind that collapsed the house hit a certain company again.

this time, it’s young master qin.

02

a short essay by my ex-girlfriend,

send him directly to the hot search.

she had aborted two of his children.

the first time i learned that i was pregnant,

she was very happy,

but mr. qin demanded that it be aborted.

she cried and begged to keep the child,

i am also willing to leave the circle and take care of my family.

but qin firmly opposed it.

the doctor said that the b-ultrasound showed that the gestational sac was too small.

barely visible, inoperable,

to ensure safety,

it is recommended to wait at least one month before having an abortion.

how cruel is abortion surgery?

eight or nine weeks,

the fetus has begun to take on a human shape,

the fingers began to explore the mother's womb.

cold metal probe

penetrating from the female lower body,

go deep along the uterine cavity,

then connect the suction tube with the negative pressure device

send it to the bottom of the palace.

once the machine is turned on, one stream is equivalent to

20 times the suction power of household vacuum cleaners,

it will tear the fetus into pieces,

suction from the uterine cavity.

she didn't know what kind of mood she had,

stay up to the day,

said goodbye to the baby.

the man comforted her,

if you get pregnant again, get married.

the woman agreed,

continue to follow the man,

no safety measures are taken.

when she again

when showing the pregnancy test stick to the man,

the man still looked indifferent:

"wait a while, the career is on the rise,

don't want this child. "

she lost a child again.

the doctor told her,

it will be difficult to be a mother in the future.

find a man again,

still cold treatment.

she woke up from the hospital bed again and again,

there was no response from the phone.

thinking back to the man’s many cheatings,

cold violence, finally understood:

marriage is just a trick played by the sperm,

after struggling a few times,

in the end, she was the only one injured.

in that short essay, she wrote:

"this is what happened,

i hope all girls will take me as a warning,

protect yourself emotionally,

love your neighbor first and love yourself first. "

both physically and mentally damaged,

finally got this lesson.

03

i don't often write about these intimate topics;

but this time i will make an exception and have a few words,

to warn those self-righteous love.

enjoy love, enjoy sex,

no problem.

but if you are unmarried,

or you are married and don’t plan to have children,

please be sure to ask your partner to take safety measures.

in bed, i can be most straightforward

observe the essence of people.

a man’s bedding,

it's his character.

99% of men advocate not using safety measures,

they can all be classified as scumbags.

think about it,

the most basic controllable risks of a company

a man who is unwilling to avoid,

how is it possible to put yourself in someone else's shoes?

consider your situation?

even questions of principle

a man who can be broken,

where will the bottom line be?

he doesn't really love you,

just want to have fun.

passion recedes,

whether it is an illness or an unexpected pregnancy,

taking risks and paying costs

it's always you.

04

tell me about two things around you.

my sister’s roommate,

i fell in love with someone when i was a freshman.

every time you have sex,

boys don’t take any safety measures.

"i don't feel comfortable, i don't like it, i don't feel it."

her roommate, four years in college,

i had several abortions.

after graduation, the two talked about getting married.

but girls have too many miscarriages,

it was difficult to conceive again.

at this time, the boy stopped working at home:

"i'm sorry, our family must have a wife."

the boy stood silently,

the girl burst into tears,

four years of youth, fed to the dog.

another story is,

a girl is originally unmarried,

but i got the certificate with my current wife.

once she spoke the truth after drinking, she said:

"the first time i had sex with him,

when the love is strong,

found no condoms.

although in high spirits,

but he still stopped and went downstairs.

later it rose again,

i suddenly felt a stomachache and groaned.

very quietly,

but he noticed.

he asked me distressedly what was wrong,

then run to the pharmacy

bought me painkillers,

i also brought a cup of hot date tea.

took care of me all night. "

at that moment, she understood,

this man is worth marrying.

reminds me of a scene in "chunjiao and zhiming",

zhiming hugged chunjiao under the quilt,

said lovingly:

"some things don't have to be done in one night."

if a man really loves you,

not only will

talking tenderly before the flowers and under the moon,

even more so on the bed

giving you tenderness and respect.

bedding reflects character,

men with poor bedding,

his character must not be much better.

just care about yourself,

regardless of your partner’s feelings,

not respecting your partner’s body,

a man who is cold when things are done,

just venting lust,

not protective.

be a man

not protective of your partner,

that woman is equivalent to a tool.

it's a tool,

throw it away if it's broken, replace it if it's rotten.

facing such a man,

just say one word to him:

roll.

05

feelings are actually very practical.

look at a man,

don't look at what he says,

but it depends on how he does it.

talk about love in a lavish way,

unprotected sex during sex,

that's farting.

the pain of being pregnant before marriage,

they simply can't relate to it.

netizen @清清 said,

the daughter of her mother’s colleague,

graduated from 211 and 985 double first-class schools,

but i got a lousy boyfriend.

the girl's parents agreed

this boy behaves very badly.

i have no ambition,

he doesn't agree with his daughter dating him.

but this boy has impure motives;

to trick a girl into leaving home and living together,

it didn't take long for her to become pregnant.

the reason is simple, i am pregnant,

the woman has no way out,

you can also take the opportunity to bargain for betrothal gifts.

and that boy is very bad,

wait until the girl is five or six months old

my belly looks pregnant,

then let her go home.

at that time, i had an abortion.

it's too harmful to the body.

the woman can't help it.

ask the man's family to come out to discuss the marriage.

the boy is a single parent,

there is only one at home

a mother with no education and no job.

at the dinner table, his mother said:

"your family looks down on our family.

our family doesn’t care about your family either. "

"who knows if your girl can do it cleanly?"

the girl's stomach is always being used to make trouble inside and outside.

take the apple of your eye,

disgraced to nothing.

a gift of 188,000 yuan,

the price was sold to 20,000.

the woman also gave her a dowry of 100,000 yuan.

bought a car.

at the wedding,

the girl’s belly is so big that she can’t wear a wedding dress.

the woman's family couldn't even raise their heads.

no matter how young people beautify it,

call elopement a brave pursuit of love,

but someone pokes your parents in the back,

say your daughter doesn’t love herself,

they are irrefutable.

a good only daughter,

play your cards to a pulp.

she was supposed to have broken up with this man.

parents made arrangements

there are good young people with good roots around them,

another 300,000 yuan as dowry,

who knew she was pregnant out of wedlock?

bet on the whole family's face

to fulfill her so-called love.

and the more she behaves like this,

the more the man thinks she is cheap.

otherwise, how could she be together with her pride?

stepping under our feet together,

it also comes with gossip about the rest of his life.

men not only do not lose money, but also make money.

it’s so cool, i caught a beautiful and beautiful fish.

i picked up a pair for nothing that couldn't bear to see my daughter suffer.

mother-in-law and father-in-law,

i don't have any classes now.

taking my mother with me to eat my daughter-in-law's family.

the origin of everything,

just a condom.

06

so girls,

take my advice.

there are no protective measures,

no sex.

this is not the word of tiger or wolf,

it's a real vernacular.

i have nothing against premarital sex;

only against unmarried pregnancy,

when love rises,

please think twice:

“is it safe sex?”

"is this your true wish?"

"if something happens

can you withstand the physical and mental stress?

double irreversible damage? "

don't be shy and dare not refuse,

don't be unable to bear the tough times,

don't be carried away by lust.

promises made in bed cannot be trusted,

don't wait until something happens;

others picked up their pants and ran away.

leaving you to face the mess alone.

food and sex are not good, but healthy,

put sex first.

nowadays people keep saying that men and women are equal.

but in these respects,

women are still at a disadvantage.

from a male perspective,

why should i wear a condom or not?

pregnant before marriage, married with a son,

it doesn't matter,

we have nothing to lose.

but girls are different,

the first option is wrong,

what we are facing is a series of car accidents.

out of control choices

bring about unplanned marriage,

once a problem occurs,

beauty in love

can disappear in an instant,

when conflicts accumulate to a certain extent,

only divorce.

what about the children who follow the accident?

the two were not prepared

as parents,

not financially independent,

childish thinking and constant contradictions,

whether it’s food, clothing, and daily life for children,

or is it an education issue?

neither can be done well.

divorce frees adults,

the child cannot escape from the prison for the rest of his life.

07

so much to say,

i just don’t want women to be passive,

i don’t want you to be pushed away by accidents or impulses,

losing dominance.

that moment of happiness

although they belong to two people,

but all the risks,

but it's all your responsibility.

don’t listen to the lie that “it doesn’t matter if you don’t wear it once in a while”,

don’t be fooled by “if you get pregnant, get married and i will raise you”.

no passion

more important than your health,

there is no relationship

it's worth it when you are unprepared

complete the role change from girl to mother.

girls, always treat yourself like a treasure.

i hope my male friends will understand,

respect and care for your loved one’s body,

that is the greatest charm of a man.

how do you say that slogan?

there are thousands of roads, safety comes first.

driving irregularly makes loved ones burst into tears.