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marriage is the other shore that people in love particularly desire to reach, but whether it is love or marriage, beauty may only be the appearance of the relationship between two people. when the cruel reality comes, if there is no very deep emotional foundation, this relationship will be shaky in the wind and rain.

as a queen-level figure in the music industry, na ying's achievements in music are obvious to all. each of her songs has become popular all over the country, but her love life is rather bumpy.

she once met the athlete gao feng, and she thought he was the person who would spend the rest of her life with her. however, their relationship changed during her pregnancy.

na ying wanted to build a complete family with gao feng, but the news of gao feng's illegitimate child made na ying's heart fall to the bottom.

their relationship finally ended when the child was four months old.

conflicts break out, storms come

when two people are in love, the birth of a child should be a happy event for the family, full of parents' expectations, and everything will eventually be new. however, na ying could not be happy during her pregnancy.

after na ying and gao feng lived together, life was not as good as she had imagined. when they were not together for a long time, they longed to see each other all the time, but the real relationship made them both miserable.

there will be all kinds of frictions and conflicts in the lives of two people.

gao feng is a hot-blooded man who is unwilling to give in to na ying. he always feels that this girl will never leave him no matter what, so it is natural for him to lose his temper and wait for her to admit defeat.

na ying, who is in love, has been tolerant all the time. she always feels that one day she will wait for this man to change.

in fact, this is just restraining yourself. if the wrong person is always by your side, then the right person will not be able to come in.

once, before na ying went on stage for a performance, gao feng quarreled with na ying over a trivial matter. at this time, na ying had already discovered that she was pregnant with gao feng's child. gao feng did not care at all that she was a pregnant woman and yelled at her from the stage.

the hardship of pregnancy coupled with gao feng's unreasonable behavior had a great impact on na ying's mood. the performance of this show was really unsatisfactory. the audience was so angry that they went backstage to demand a refund.

in the end, na ying's company could only take on all the responsibilities, while na ying had to bear the compensation for the refunded tickets personally. she might have realized at this time that a wrong relationship did not bring her growth, but endless drag.

during the years that na ying and gao feng were together, na ying was responsible for most of the expenses because gao feng's income was very different from hers. na ying was a silly girl who didn't know how to manage money, and with the compensation this time, na ying had almost spent all her savings.

at this time, na ying, who was in love, was still thinking about solving the problem. after all, they had their own child, and they had to give the child a complete family no matter what. in fact, this also shows from the side that na ying's enthusiasm has not been exhausted.

gao feng knew from the bottom of his heart that na ying was obsessed with him because she was an athlete, and she had a superior attitude. when a relationship cannot be equal to each other, it has basically come to an end. na ying's admiration and compromise with gao feng were exchanged for the other party's step-by-step pressure and her own disappointment.

as na ying's pregnancy progressed, she had to turn down all her work and prepare to give birth. at this time, a woman came to her house with a three-year-old child, claiming that this was gao feng's illegitimate child. na ying suddenly felt dizzy and fainted on the ground.

what is going on?

i once loved, but was hurt

in fact, gao feng and na ying are from completely different worlds.

gao feng is an athlete of the chinese football team. he was once hailed by many as "china's no. 1 striker" and has indeed achieved considerable success in the field of football.

na ying is a professional singer, and the two of them were not related at all, but they had a mutual friend, mao ning. mao ning was keen on organizing dinners, and at one dinner, the carefree na ying met gao feng, who was from the same hometown, and they had a great time talking to each other.

since na ying had never been in a relationship before, she quickly fell in love with this man who was emitting hormones all over his body. after they established a romantic relationship, they were collectively opposed by na ying's family.

many people think that gao feng is unreliable, and that his career achievements do not equate to his suitability as a boyfriend. however, na ying is like a moth to a flame, and refuses to listen to anyone's advice, insisting on being with gao feng.

after knowing that gao feng had an illegitimate child, na ying probably felt a lot of regrets. when she was eight months pregnant, a woman named wang nawen came to na ying and gao feng's home with a three-year-old son.

in fact, before this, many media reported that gao feng had an illegitimate child. na ying thought it was just some unscrupulous media making up stories and she didn't care. but the appearance of wang nawen seemed to make everything a foregone conclusion.

this woman was gao feng’s ex-girlfriend. the two fell in love at first sight at a party and began to have various ambiguous relationships. however, after being together for a while, wang nawen found out that the other party had a girlfriend, so she chose to stop abruptly to prevent both parties from getting too deeply involved.

but gao feng was two-timing. on the one hand, he lied to wang nawen that he had broken up with his girlfriend, but on the other hand, he was still in contact with his ex-girlfriend. after two months of being together, wang nawen became pregnant.

gao feng was determined to ask the other party to abort the child, but wang nawen was worried that abortion would have too much impact on her body, so she resolutely gave birth to the child alone. seeing that the other party insisted on doing so, gao feng just walked away.

after the news report came out, gao feng firmly denied it, but wang nawen took their paternity test and directly sued the man to court. na ying burst into tears looking at the court's verdict.

this man whom she had loved for many years, it turned out that everything was just a show with her. he could abandon the pregnant wang nawen, and he could also abandon herself and the child. na ying named the child gao xing, but the reality was the opposite.

four months after the birth of the child, when na ying had just finished her confinement, they broke up. na ying took the child away from the place that made her sad and painful, and prepared to raise the child alone.

embarrassing identity, regret

after the breakup, na ying became depressed. in order to fill the emotional trauma, she overate and her weight soared to 160 pounds. this was known to meng tong, a mutual friend of him and gao feng.

na ying is like a white moonlight to meng tong. he was very sad when he knew na ying was with gao feng. he once declared: "if gao feng wasn't there, na ying would definitely be mine."

so during the period when na ying was in a depressed mood, meng tong was always by her side.

finally, na ying accepted meng tong's pursuit. she didn't mind that meng tong was just a small bar owner at the time. she had only one request for this man, that is, he must treat gao xing like his own son.

in 2006, na ying married meng tong, and they gave birth to a daughter. this marriage did not bring na ying pain and helplessness, but happiness and mutual understanding.

the daughter inherited na ying's outspoken character. when she was young, she often teased gao xing. even if meng tong was around, she would ask gao xing unscrupulously:

"my father is meng tong, my last name is meng, and your last name is gao. so whose family are you from?"

na ying and meng tong were at a loss for words when they saw their daughter's nagging look. gao xing never lacked fatherly love while growing up, but when gao feng wanted to see his son, he could only awkwardly show up at their house as an uncle.

na ying has completely let go of gao feng. after fading out of the entertainment industry for a while, meng tong still encouraged her to return to the audience's attention. "the voice of china" made na ying popular again, and "i am a singer" allowed more people to see na ying's huge traffic.

even the audience joked that na ying was a member of the yehenara clan. for a long time, na ying topped the charts of various entertainment sections. her past straightforward remarks were also dug up by everyone, and more and more young people liked na ying.

looking back at the peak, life has changed dramatically.

because of the negative news, he had to withdraw from the national team, and his physical fitness was not as good as before. after marrying athlete fan chunling, he was photographed by the media beating a driver, taking contraband and other negative news, and his life was a mess.

cherish the time and cherish each other

gao feng was the person na ying met when her feelings were the purest. na ying loved him even more than she loved herself, but gao feng's actions were not worthy of this woman's deep affection for him. when a person does not cherish this relationship, it is time for the other person to leave.

na ying mustered up the courage to separate from this man and established her own family. even if gao feng regretted it, it would be of no avail. in fact, life is gone forever, so it is very important to cherish the people around you and do well in the things around you.