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liu meihan recorded "my daughter" with her mother.

what ended up going viral was the mother’s little love tips?

when asked whether you should ask about the other person’s past when you meet them for the first time?

she replied: don’t ask⬇️

the reason is that if you ask about someone's past, there is a high probability that what you hear has been packaged, and 80% of it may be false. you have to understand it through clues from daily interactions.

he also said that even if girls have reached the marriageable age, they should not show their weaknesses so that people can exploit them, no matter how anxious they are.

once the weakness is discovered, it is easy to "collapse".

after several conversations back and forth, the guests in the observation room were completely impressed by liu meihan's mother.

zhang cailing wants to sign her up as an account⬇️

wangwang asked her to publish a book.

i also need to add wechat to prepare for solving future emotional problems.⬇️

wu xin tried to act out a scene with her where she was being questioned during a blind date.

i asked only two questions and the power shifted⬇️

it is impossible to ask people to answer every question they ask, and blind dates also require two-way understanding.

but,the mother is an expert in love, but the daughter is a novice in love?

her last relationship happened in her senior year.

i have been single for 11 years now.

#阚清子震惊: it’s been a while…

it's not that she doesn't want to fall in love.

in order to realize this wish,

she studied hard the love skills book⬇️

#eat and read, don't forget to review before going to bed👇

find a friend to help you solve your emotional problems⬇️

but there is no one i am attracted to.⬇️

finally i met someone who i felt a little bit for,

and because i really can't communicate and get along with the opposite sex,

i prepared 20 topics before the meeting.

the result is that the harder i work, the more sad i feel…

she made a list of her ideal type and asked kan qingzi to help her find someone to introduce to her:

height 180+,

personalities attract each other.

able to continue to discover the little joys in life.

the idea is good, but these conditions...if you look closely, they seem to be something that will arise naturally after you are together?

this list was also mercilessly criticized by my mother:only people who are not truly in love can write something like this。

but seeing that she is eager to get out of being single,

i am also full of superstition that kan qingzi found her current boyfriend after recording "my daughter".

liu meihan actually had two blind date experiences on the show.

the first male guest,

height 180+,

working in the financial industry,

about the same age as liu meihan,

it actually meets the first requirement of her ideal type.

but the atmosphere was a little off when we first met.

before i could even exchange a few pleasantries,

as soon as liu meihan got out of the car, she asked the man if there was a toilet.⬇️

the date arranged by the man was camping and picking.

but due to the long distance,

it's very sunny.

the original expectations were greatly reduced.

after arriving at the picking garden, we were faced with the problem of mosquito bites.

during the whole process, although liu meihan wanted to devote herself fully, she also took the initiative to start a conversation.

but due to height restrictions, it is difficult to participate⬇️

this time everyone picked their own things⬇️

the picking process was already boring, and the atmosphere became even more awkward when we arrived at the campsite.

it's not that no one is talking.

after a question and an answer, silence fell again.

i frequently drink water and wipe my sweat to ease the embarrassment...

finally we talked about a common topic: postgraduate entrance examination⬇️

(liu meihan was once encountered by netizens taking the postgraduate entrance examination at peking university in 2022)

the man then changed the subject and mentioned that liu meihan had been single for eleven years⬇️

actively investigate the reason why she is still single⬇️

last second, we were still discussing what type of boys liu meihan likes⬇️

the next second he mocked her for saying that what she said was the public standard⬇️

after a while, liu meihan lost all her patience and started to fight back.

ask him if he has brought his ex-girlfriend here⬇️

make fun of his status in his last relationship.

in the end, i found out that the man boasted that he could coax people, but his way of coaxing people during quarrels was to take a picture of the girl's angry face and tell her that she looked ugly.

liu meihan, who originally knew how to control her facial expressions while recording the show, completely lost control and couldn't help but look up and roll her eyes.

this unpleasant and long date finally came to an end.

after the end, the man took the initiative to ask for contact information.

out of politeness, liu meihan quickly agreed.

but what awaited her was a thunderous sentence: do you want to add a work account or a life account? ⬇️

liu meihan: which account do you think i deserve? ⬇️

the other party replied directly: then it must be a work number.

i also specifically emphasized the benefits of the work number.

show off that there are a lot of messages that i haven’t replied to ⬇️

#liu meihan: okay, okay, as long as you are happy

you go out on a blind date happily, but end up becoming someone else's potential client?

the guests in the observation room all wanted the man to take a taxi and leave immediately.

not to mention liu meihan who went through all of this.

after the blind date, liu meihan's mother gave a failing grade.

i think the two of them could have started a conversation based on this environment, but they missed it.

i think liu meihan shouldn’t ask about the man’s past relationship history, as it is all packaged and meaningless.

just don’t add wechat, there’s no need to make yourself angry.

however, everyone present also knew that the main reason for the awkwardness of this date was not liu meihan.

liu meihan's mother was even more disdainful of the man's claim that he could coax people, saying that boasting without taking action were completely the opposite of the truth.

maybe it was because the first blind date was too explosive, when the second male guest asked for contact information, liu meihan was still scared⬇️

however, this male guest has a much higher eq.

in the process of getting to know each other, we are also more considerate.

actively start a chat topic ⬇️

when ordering, ask liu meihan in advance if she has any dietary restrictions⬇️

as we chatted, we discovered that we both had a common hobby of skiing⬇️

the atmosphere is completely different from the previous paragraph⬇️

later in the date, the man took liu meihan to the badminton court.

he was still as considerate as ever during the game.

don't hesitate to praise liu meihan.

the emotional value is full.

after the conversation ended, the man couldn't wait to invite liu meihan for a second date.

said that he had prepared a game strategy ⬇️

during the second contact, the man still behaved normally.

personal pick-up⬇️

when liu meihan said she was thirsty, i immediately went to buy water and prepared iced and room temperature water for her to choose from⬇️

this thoughtfulness was recognized by the guests in the observation room.

later in the game, the two of them got along very well.

liu meihan was visibly happy.

she seemed quite satisfied with male guest number two.

however, liu meihan's relaxation during the date was still criticized by netizens:

“it was a close call, we almost got the deal”⬇️

"liu meihan is afraid that she will be single"⬇️

"last time i went on a blind date, people were so angry that they rolled their eyes. this time, i went on a blind date and made people roll their eyes in anger."⬇️

the reason is that no matter how the man sends signals to liu meihan, she will ruthlessly return them.

the boy lived near the playground, but he took a detour to pick her up.

liu meihan commented: "round trip."

prepared sunscreen.

she said, “i want to get a tan.”

dining together, totally disregarding personal image, getting excited when seeing the chicken butt⬇️

the look in her eyes is more pious than when she looks at the male guest⬇️

although the guests in the observation room were full of praise for the male second lead,

even started shipping cp⬇️

however, this blind date partner who was so perfect in every aspect made liu meihan's mother a little worried.

in her opinion, the way the second male lead was courting liu meihan was a bit excessive.

it may be because i have been single for too long and have no experience in love.

during the contact, liu meihan was too straightforward in answering all the questions.

it's easy to be seen through at a glance.

mom's worries are not without reason.

just when everyone was impressed by the man's high emotional intelligence and his ability to coax girls,

did you notice that this second male lead seems to be a frequent guest on blind date shows?

once on a blind date show, when i saw the mother and daughter of the other party appear at the same time, i asked: which one is the aunt?

at that time, i was complained about being too greasy...

liu meihan's mother's judgment of people once again impressed netizens.

also wondering:not only did liu meihan fail to inherit this love quotient, she also refused to listen to her mother.

it comes back to the question of the mother-daughter relationship.

there are at least twenty years of experience between the two people, so it is more realistic that it is difficult for their ideas to be synchronized.

it is hard to criticize her for preferring to accept advice from her peers rather than her mother, but in fact, if you think about it from another perspective, if liu meihan gave advice to her mother based on her current knowledge, it might not be recognized.

she was unwilling to accept her mother's advice, which was also due to her parents' obstruction of her relationship.

and the two generations have inconsistent views on love.

liu meihan said that her mother once introduced her to a blind date who made her very dissatisfied.

the other person was a businessman wearing a stand-up collar polo shirt, with a big belly and a book on success in his hand.

because of this, liu meihan got the angrier she'd ever been in her life.

perhaps in my mother's view, a successful and stable career is the most important factor.

but for liu meihan, having a successful career may not be within her consideration.

although the requirements for appearance are not very high, you cannot be fat,

mediterranean...right?

what's more important is that she wants matching values ​​and all aspects.

you need to know how to pay attention to her demands and feelings.

respect women and their values,

it’s best if two people complement each other.

this request, which is seen as naive, is precisely her least naive side.

when she was young, she had a mother who could see through the world for her at a glance. this wisdom helped her to prevent many unpleasant things and helped her to achieve her goals in one go.

siwen, who accompanied liu meihan on two blind dates on the show, also said that liu meihan has been well protected by her family since she was a child and has a happy life.

but what we see are two different worlds.

after gaining more autonomy over her life, the life she observed through her own eyes was different from what she had originally perceived, and she naturally resisted her mother's arrangements.

what's more, when it comes to love, it's often the case that those involved are more confused than those on the sidelines, and some techniques may not be completely applicable to everyone.

learning to fit yourself into an inappropriate mold is bound to hide your true self.

perhaps it is because she understands this that liu meihan consistently shows her true self.

the way of getting along with the opposite sex seems a bit clumsy, with no skills and just directness.

but what she needs is not someone who can force herself to fit the shoes, but someone who can see each other's truest selves, discover each other's shining points, and let her taste some sweetness from it.

final word

being able to retain this innocence after becoming an adult is luck, but also a choice.