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he is willing to be a "chen shimei" for love, but he can't resist the "seven-year itch" and married his 15-year-old wife at the age of 48.

2024-09-04

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the workplace drama "boundless future" is scheduled to be broadcast on cctv-8's prime time. the drama has become popular before it was aired, and has been on the hot list of a certain audio platform, with more than three million people following it.

wang zhifei's look in the play is particularly eye-catching. he has changed his previous image and has fluffy curly hair, which looks quite interesting.

this seems to be his first time starring in this kind of modern workplace drama.

looking back at wang zhifei's experience since his debut, i found that he is not only a drama fanatic and takes acting seriously, but in fact, when it comes to relationships, i think he is also a "serious" person. if he doesn't love anymore, he will turn around and leave, but if he loves, he will get married immediately.

01 abandoning his original wife for love, willing to be the contemporary "chen shimei"

wang zhifei was born in beijing in march 1965. he was different from ordinary people at birth and weighed ten and a half kilograms.

but his unusual characteristics did not bring him any benefits.

as far as he can remember, he noticed that people around him looked at him differently and other children were unwilling to play with him. this was because both his parents were deaf-mute.

perhaps it was because of the good education at home that wang zhifei, who grew up in such an environment, has a very positive outlook on life.

he did not resent his parents for all the unnecessary "suffering" they had brought him, but felt that his parents had a hard time and was particularly eager to change the status quo. he did not want to live under the discrimination and pity of others.

having experienced the fickleness of the world early on, he is more mature than his peers.

when he was ten years old, many people might still be wetting the bed, but he was determined to become an actor, thinking that this would allow him to make money and improve his family environment.

this originated from his participation in a drama performance at school, which exposed him to the profession of actor.

with this dream, he was admitted to the china railway art troupe in 1984, and then entered the central academy of drama for further studies, and successfully graduated from the academy in 1987.

in 1987, he made his official debut with the drama "good dad bad dad".

but then he had almost no work for four years, and it was not until 1991 that he got a new role again.

in 1995, wang zhifei, who was busy with his career, met a girl outside the circle, li jian, through a friend's introduction. after spending some time together, the two got married soon and gave birth to a son the following year.

after marriage, the two had a sweet time. at that time, wang zhifei's financial situation was not very good. in order to create a good living condition for his wife and children, he focused on his career.

as time went by, the passion of marriage faded, the two were together less and less, and as they were not in the same circle, they gradually had less and less topics to talk about.

in the end, wang zhifei probably felt more like a responsibility towards his wife, rather than the original emotion.

in 1999, wang zhifei reached the peak of his career. he became famous for his role in the drama "breaking out" and won the best supporting actor award at the first china golden eagle tv art festival. his acting career then entered the fast lane.

there are gains and losses in life. behind the rapid development of his career, his marriage was in trouble.

in 2004, there was a loud noise in the sky, and a "lin daiyu" fell down and hit him.

in the drama "the wind blows, the clouds move, but the stars stay still", he fell in love with a girl and they started dating.

however, he did not hide it from his wife. instead, he returned home and confessed to her that he had a new love outside and planned to divorce her.

despite this, this behavior also earned him the stigma of "chen shimei".

the wife was shocked when she heard the news, wondering what she would do with her widow and her children. but she was helpless to change the man she had lived with for nearly 10 years and had to agree to divorce.

to express his apology, it is said that wang zhifei left the house with nothing and then turned to the arms of his "lin daiyu".

02 i thought it was true love, but it couldn’t resist the “seven-year itch” and i decisively cut my losses

this "lin daiyu" is the sichuan girl zhang xinyi.

she was born in may 1981 in ziyang city, sichuan province. she is 16 years younger than wang zhifei and is his junior.

the two met on the set of "the wind blows, the clouds move, the stars stay still", which was also zhang xinyi's first work since her debut. she was 23 years old that year.

at that time, wang zhifei was at the age of "a man in his prime at 41", full of the aura of a mature man, which was very charming for a young girl who had just made her debut.

the two were alumni, so she often asked wang zhifei for advice on acting. after a few interactions, they developed a good impression of each other.

wang zhifei, who is a low-key person and only wants to make movies, could not resist the hot girl's fiery passion. he failed to keep the stars still while the wind moved, and finally fell under her spell.

the two kept a low profile after they fell in love, and the outside world was almost unaware of it.

with the support of the big boss, zhang xinyi's career seems to have a cheat. when they first got together in 2005, they only acted in one drama "give me a cigarette".

by 2007, she had acted in four or five dramas at once, and won the "annual potential star award" from beijing youth weekly that year. she received many film offers in the following years.

the two have co-starred in works such as "dragon and tiger life", "love in heaven and earth", "sophie's confession", "the mansion gate 1912", etc. it is said that many of them were roles that wang zhifei fought for her.

in the romance of the three kingdoms, it is said that the general trend of the world is that after a long period of division, there will be unification, and after a long period of unification, there will be division.

the same is true for relationships. the two had been together for seven years, but they couldn't escape the "seven-year itch" and broke up in 2012.

in march 2012, wang zhifei officially announced on weibo that he and zhang xinyi had officially ended their relationship recently, and thanked the woman for her companionship over the years. finally, he said that he sincerely wished "you" happiness.

from this weibo post, we can see that there is something else behind the words.

combined with the woman's subsequent announcement of her new relationship with yang shupeng, as well as her collaboration with yang shupeng in 2011, it can be seen that the online rumors were not groundless.

perhaps wang zhifei also discovered this, so he decisively "cut his losses" and devoted all his attention to work after the breakup.

in the same year, he went to a beijing school for the deaf and dumb to participate in a charity event and met a girl who was also attending the event there.

as if it was destined, the two fell in love quickly, and the speed at which their relationship developed definitely set a historical record for celebrity marriages in the entertainment industry.

03 flash marriage to a wife 15 years younger than me, meeting true love

the woman who attended the event was named zhang dinghan, formerly known as zhang yi. she was born in august 1980 and is also from beijing.

coincidentally, the two had worked together once before.

"metamorphosis" was first broadcast in 2003. wang zhifei was the male lead in the show, and zhang dinghan also participated in the show.

it’s just that she had just debuted at that time and didn’t have many parts in the film, so the two didn’t have much interaction.

this meeting 10 years later was like an old house on fire. they got their marriage certificate three days after they met. it was really jaw-dropping and a complete flash marriage.

however, behind the seemingly accidental events, there is a certain inevitability.

it turned out that zhang dinghan's mother was a die-hard fan of wang zhifei. whenever the tv station broadcast wang zhifei's play, her mother would call her daughter and say that she had seen wang zhifei's play again and that his acting was getting better and better. she hoped that her daughter could bring home a son-in-law like him.

with the brainwashing and assistance of her future mother-in-law, zhang dinghan's excitement and emotions when she saw wang zhifei again in real life are roughly understandable.

there was a very romantic episode when wang zhifei proposed to his wife.

at that time, he wanted to change the way of proposing, so he tentatively said that if he could find a ring suitable for zhang dinghan in the mall, then they would get the marriage certificate today.

at that time, zhang dinghan was quite thin, and she tried on rings at all the counters in the mall, but couldn't find a suitable one, as the rings were generally too large.

just when wang zhifei was feeling disappointed and wanted to give up, the counter clerk saw what he was thinking and quickly said, don't worry, she will go to the warehouse in the back to look for it.

as a result, she was gone for five or six minutes. although the time was short, to wang zhifei, it felt like a century.

finally, the waiter brought three rings, one of which fit zhang dinghan very well. it seemed that god blessed them.

the two then held their wedding in beijing on october 6, 2013.

after marriage, they had a lovely daughter, and wang zhifei became a daughter slave since then.

it can be seen from many talk shows that every time he talks about his daughter, his eyes light up and he immediately reveals an expression of happiness and fatherly love.

so much so that some people compared his love for his own children, saying that he was too partial, only loving his daughter and not caring about his son.

when he was filming in the past, they were apart more often than together, and he lacked a lot of love for his son, so after he had a daughter, he transferred his love to her to avoid making the same mistakes as in the past.

in fact, he also cares a lot about his son. although some not-so-good scenes were reported in a certain program, he explained afterwards that because he has resources in the entertainment industry, he wanted to let him go his own way, which would help his son.

today, wang zhifei has two children, a happy family, his acting skills are becoming more and more perfect, and he has realized his childhood dream. it is no exaggeration to describe him as a winner in life.

life is like this, what else can i ask for!