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if you want your child to be well-mannered, you need to set some basic rules for him. how to set rules to prevent your child from being spoiled? love has no limits, is this right? of course not!

in this dramatic and insightful story, each episode is like a scene in the drama of life. people are shocked, helpless and moved to witness how a mother finds a balance between love and rules, and how this balance quietly changes everything. lin xiao, a single mother who loves her child deeply, tells this story of exploring love and rules. since xiaobao was born, lin xiao has poured all her love and attention on him, fearing that he will be hurt. however, as time goes by, lin xiao gradually realizes that there is a blurred line between unconditional love and doting. xiaobao began to become willful and spoiled, and his disregard for the rules made her feel helpless and worried.

one day, while walking in the park, lin xiao overheard a conversation between an old lady and her grandson. the grandson cried because his toys were taken away by other children. the old lady did not comfort him immediately, but said gently and firmly: "baby, we can't cry because someone took your toys away. we can try to share with him or find other fun." this sentence, like a flash of lightning, illuminated lin xiao's heart. she realized that love and rules are not contradictory. true love is to teach children how to be independent, respect others, and face difficulties in society. so lin xiao began to try to set up some basic rules for xiaobao, such as daily homework time, play time and rest time, as well as basic etiquette on how to get along with others. at first, xiaobao resisted this, and lin xiao also felt unprecedented challenges. however, she did not give up, but chose to use patience and understanding to guide xiaobao to understand the importance of rules. a dramatic scene happened at a family gathering. xiaobao was temporarily deprived of the right to participate in the game because he did not abide by the rules agreed in advance. at that moment, xiaobao's eyes were full of confusion and grievances, and lin xiao's heart was also full of helplessness. however, it was this experience that made xiaobao begin to realize that rules exist not to restrict his freedom, but to enable him to grow and integrate better into society.